I have been dating this guy for around 5 years (off and on for 2) and he has told me on several occasions that he is ready to move in together and get married. However, I do not want to get married just yet and I definitely do not want to move in with him because I think I need to live on my own first. He is going on 25 this year and I'm 22, I do not think I am ready to be married because of horrible marriage examples given in my life and I am still young. I don't know how to think about this situation. Any advice, guys/girls?
If you are not ready to get married nor are ready to move in with him, then don't do either. Tell him that how you feel about both and reassure him that your sentiments do not reflect poorly on your relationship. Don't rush into anything you don't feel comfortable with. He should be able to understand.
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