Should I tell him I'm pregnant?

Well if you are pregnant and you are not going to have an abortion, then I don't see why you shouldn't tell him. If he is a man he will be able to accept the consequences of his actions and support you. Otherwise, you will be able to see his true colors and decide where you want to go from there. I see no reasonably good answer though for why you shouldn't tell him.

Plain and Simple tell him.

I know exactly how you feel.I felt the same way when I got pregnant.before I miscarried.but if you are dead set against abortions then I would tell him.I tried to keep it a secret because we weren't getting along but he found out anyway and you should tell your parents as well and if things don't work out the way you planned with your boyfriend then adoption is not a bad choice as well.Good luck =]

I agree you should tell him no matter what. Even if you where going to have an abortion (which your not I understand) a man has the right to know.

I am not your mother but my heart goes out to you. In my opinion your to young and what I mean by that is not to young to have a baby and care for it but you have your whole life ahead of you and this baby will stop you dead in your tracks. For the next 20 years at least you will have to put your own life on the back burning and raise this baby.

Please don't put abortion on a moral issue. And don't think about yourself. Think about what you can offer this child.

You have 3 choices: Keep the baby - Abortion - or Have the baby and give it up for adoption.

Questions Can you support this child? Will you be able to provide health insurance? Do you have enough education to get a job that will pay enough to afford an apartment, daycare, and all of the above.

If things don't work out with the father which you know your not an acception to the statistics that 95 % of teenage relationships never work out. How many guys do you think will want to take on that responsibility. Oh and they say they do for maybe 3 or 4 months. And then they screw. Usually.

Think about it, don't you want to experience things; accomplish things. Graduate, go to college or learn a skill. Save for a nice wedding and honeymoon. You deserve that honey.

Kaitligirl your young and If I where your mom I would hope that you either had an abortion or gave the baby up for adoption. Imagine you have a daughter what would you hope for her?


You don't want to struggle on the system.!

I wish you luck and truly hope that this turns out for the best concerning you. The decision as you know is yours.

Good luck honey.

You have to tell him, maybe he will want to b involved and if he doesn't want to be involved in your child's life then he isn't worth you being with him. You have to think about you and ur baby now