Most people choose to ignore the warning signs of a person's character in the name of love. However, what are some of the warning signs that you would consider a character flaw for someone your in a relationship with that would make you think twice about getting too serious with them?
Lies about anything (small lies, social lies etc.) Doesn't like my wife or my friends Hits things Hits me makes threats or ultimatums Needs to have a better story every time must win everything monogamous "true" or "real" submissive doesn't like sex or has serious reservations about some kinds of sex. Has nothing good to say about previous lovers Doesn't work Financially irresponsible Has "issues" that are major focus of conversation Overtly religious
Before my last relationship I had none I tried my best to work it out but knowing what I know now here are mine well some lol
Cheated on previous boy friends "Been around the block" I want a clean girl excessive "baggage- Have my own problems don't need any1 elses you have to have a future I don't want to be with some1 who is making 10$ hr and plan on it for the rest of their life I'm not supporting anybody besides my self and children in the future
I'd say, -if they have a temper -drinks a lot/ does drugs a lot -doesn't seem interested in a future together -if they've cheated before -if they're extremely cocky [theres a difference between cocky and confidence] -if they're disrespectful -if they don't appear to have future goals -if they disrespect they're mama -if they tend to lie a lot -they make time for everyone and everything except you
just make sure you set your standards and stuff and don't accept anything less than that.
- If he's cheated on other girlfriends in the past - If he's unreliable - If he drinks too much on a regular basis (some people just never outgrow it) - If he is extremely self-centered - If he is disrespectful.
Unfortunately, I speak from experience. Had I actually paid attention to these things, I probably would never have married my ex. Oh well, live and learn!
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I'm an outdoors man and so it's important to me that my gal enjoy that too. The ideal date for me is to go on a hike in the mountains and then enjoy a romantic lunch with some cool wine.
I would dress for the hike.
The date ends with us making out a little... and maybe taking in the stars together.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
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