The girl I'm seeing wants to move into an apartment with me asap. she has made a lot of effort into finding an apartment, but not much into our relationship. I let her take charge in finding the apartment, and am supportive of her search. recently, she has displayed a continuous pattern of standing me up on dates, making plans without calling me, and ignoring my calls. I have come to crossroad. I'm torn between breaking up with her and letting her handle the apartment on her own. or I could stay boyfriend. have you experienced this and what advice do you have for me?
No I have never experienced something like this, and it seems weird that she ignores your calls already and you two don't live together yet?? Maybe she is pulling these stunts before you two move in together because she is wanting to show you just a taste of how home life will be for you two. She will be standing you up on dates and making plans without calling you, and worst of all she will be ignoring your calls. Are you ready to live with someone who is going to do that??? I would reconsider the apartment. Good luck
I've experienced something like this and she sounds very similar to one of my exes. She will be a nightmare to live with... I bet you £50. Besides she stands you up on dates? If a girl stood me up just ONCE on a date then she'd be a goner. Do you not think she's taking the wazz out of you a bit? There are girls that are a lot better than that. Girls that wouldn't dream of standing you up, ignoring you, making plans without calling you. As you say that's just the start of your relationship... look further down the line and it will be much worse lol.
Anyway it's your choice but I've had a similar girlfriend to that and it didn't last long.
I haven't experienced this.. I'm more of an observer.. but DO NOT move in with her, if you were to take my advice. Firstly, the first few days are gonna be awesome.. because it's a new thing for you. We all like change. Initially, however. All systems in this universe however, by virtue are resistant to change. That is the only way dynamics can sustain. Because of which, the 'standing you up' part is gonna kill you. The best bet is if you break up with her or just keep it casual.
If you move in.. it means that since you share a common place of living, she has a basis of exercising authority. And if you can't really stand up to her at all times.. it's gonna mess up with you hugely.
P.S: on a side note, since you've just started seeing her.. and she wants you to move in asap.. she could be a serial killer.
The serial kill antics where a good laugh for sure. Even tho yes women do kill to I know. I have to agree though after being married/divorced, I would say never make any FAST moves, and if she is demanding an IMMEDIATE gratification move as such, id stop the train and be wondering, "WHY" why do you want this "SO" fast? Because since often times women do things based on ulterior motive, and this ulterior motive doesn't seem like a good one. Also as the gentlemen here said pos control freak. - 3 months ago
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