Soo I went on a date with a friend last week.. yes with a friend. The last couple years she has been in a relationship and after that ended sour she had a little stint with her best friend. That's basically over now.. We've always hit it off, she's just always been in a relationship. Do think it would weird her out or change anything if I said I wanted to extend out relationship to a short time summer fling? We are both home for summer and we trust each other, but I don't really want to mess a good friendship up.
Update: Now the hard part.. finding the right way to deliver this to her. be straightforward or hint until she gets it.
3 months ago
It seems that you like being the 2nd option when it comes to your friend. I mean think about it how many more years are you going to play yourself for this woman??? While she is out building new relationships with men that do not seem to be the one for her. To me your the one for her your always there after things go south for her with these other men, and if you don't realize that and she doesn't, which one of you two are going to stop and say wait a minute we are the best people for one another. Good luck with your friend. Invite me to the wedding! =)
I'd take the marriage thing a tad slow.. Even though you are right there anonymous They do seem like they'd work "GREAT" together, although you need to realize this goes with my post of "JUST" being nothing but a "FRIEND" to women. As he comments that person she can come and bitch to about her current mistake because she is an airhead, and not willing to realize what she has right smack dab in front of her. She just wants someone to comfort her/attention and this type of BEHAVIOR is childish. - 3 months ago
It will change everything that exists once you've said that. And that's because human beings, by virtue are f***ing idiots. They can't just seem to forget things and tend to be totally irrational when it comes to emotions. And if for once, she takes the meaning of 'summer fling' wrong.. or ends up with a cliche like, 'u are really a nice guy' or something like that.. a lot of would have changed already than you could ever reverse.
there is no way of knowing if it's mutual or not.. you're just gonna have to take the jump..
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My first date would be something fun! A baseball game, arcade (do they have those anymore? ha!), hiking, fishing, or just hang out by the shore! I would wear anything comfy, jeans and a shirt, something I could run around in but nothing sloppy! The date would end depending on how the date went so I guess TBD (to be determined)!!!
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Everthing..I love my family, I lived in Africa for 7 years, if he's a nerdy guy he'd know I am in to him instantly cause I have a thing for them! If your IT watch out!! ha ha! I love to have fun and hate being bored so I love always being on the go or just sitting hanging with him!
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When: 3 months ago
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