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So he hit me what do I do?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 3 months ago
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He got really mad and slapped me how do I handle this he said it was sorry but then through me into the wall I don't know what to do I love him but its to much

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Well Just sit down talk about why he did it if he really is sorry then he will have to prove that he really is just be careful and always look out.
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Answerer I did and I would really feel bad if that did happen and I wouldn't want it to happen... - 3 months ago
 

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S8tr1234 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Girl, you better snap out of it! What he's doing is PHYSICAL ABUSE! If you want to live and stay in one piece, run and get a restraining order while you're at it. I know you're seeing things from rose colored glasses but this here ain't love. Love isn't supposed to hurt physically or emotionally. If he truly loves you, he would NEVER EVER lay a hand on you or treat you the way he does. He obviously has anger issues and he's taking things out on you. This is someone you don't want to be around as you are only putting yourself in more danger by staying with him. The fact that he apologized does NOT change the fact that he slapped you AND even through against the wall after apologizing. This behavior is inexcusable! How can you be with someone who belittles you as a human being and treats you as if you're a punching bag?! WAKE UP! Do you really want to look at yourself in the mirror and count the bruises he's given you?

I really hope you walk away from this relationship before you end up in the ER or worse, in a body bag.
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gReekpRincess (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
What do you do.. hmm.. I don't know.. maybe whoop his stupid ass!! Omg, I can't even fathom how you could possibly say you love someone who treats you like a punching bag..!! yeah you might love him, but jeez girl, he is beating into u, aren't you a little more concerned about ur safety then having a loser boyfriend around.. and what are you going to say to ur family and friends if he leaves marks on u?? "oh I bumped into the wall" that crap gets old after awhile, and honey ain't no one gonna believe that shit.. in harshest ways, get rid of that dick, he'll never ever change, and if something worse then what you explain happens, hows ur family going to feel? find someone who will treat you with the same respect you treat them.. oh and don't ever let him tell you any of that was ur fault, cause then you'll start feeling bad about yourself..
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when-the-rain-fall I so f***ing agree with you!! - 3 months ago

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when-the-rain-fall (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
3 words.... FUCK THAT SHIT! You should NEVER EVER put up with a guy who hits you. NEVER!!! There are plenty more love to find in this world. He is not the only one who has a penis. What an assf***er. Dump his f***ing ass. That pisses me the f*** off. Who the f*** is he thinking he can slap around someone and get away with it. He doesn't respect you and he doesn't deserve yours. I don't give a damn if he's name is Brad Pitt or Gerard Butler! You need to leave him as soon as possible. Make sure that it's a clean break up. Report him to cops if necessary. Please, please, pleeeeaasssseee don't stay with him.
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lost-angel (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
I know its hard for you to take the smart advise and leave him.
But you really have to. He's not going to change. Take it from the women who has been in your shoes, or women who are stuck in it.
I really hope you decide to walk away.
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wildd (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Personally, I'd walk right out. I wouldn't even want to talk to him about why he hit me. That crap is not even my option. Tell someone. If he slapped you now and summed it up with a sorry.. there is a chance that he will do it again.. and unless you end this relationship now... it'll be harder for you to get away in the latter. This guy isn't worth loving. A guy who hits a girl.. is not a freakin' dude... just a coward bastard. And you deserve better.
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littleone28 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Walk away RIGHT NOW. That is all.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I no how you feel my husband hit me and I though that it was my fault he said that he was sorry and would never do it again but he lied he hit me for 3 years until one day he almost killed me....don't ever let a man hit u
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lost-angel Omg.. are you ok?
r you still with your husband? - 3 months ago

 
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Tell your parents or the police. if he does that now he can't get any better. if he's just willing to hurt you then he's not worth it. and you should definitely tell someone.
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