After being gone 3 weeks I thank I would say "See Ya!" I thank that enough time to know what you want to do in your life. are their kids involved? How long have you two been together?
We have been together about 7 years. Yeah we have a 2 year old together. - 4 months ago
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OOOO The 7 year ich. I have seen kind of thing before, a lot of times sometime people thank the grass is greener on the other side of the fince sometime after they get it out of them self's they come home and sometime they don't. as for you only you can decide when you have been hurt enough and when you get to that point it's long enough. I hope this helps Good Luck - 4 months ago
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Thank you so much. I think I have been hurt enough. I just can't understand why some one I gave my life to and supported for so many years. Can just walk away and not feel bad when has kids behind to makes me know how cold he really is. I don't want to play this game with him again. I wish I could figure out how to stop missing him. - 4 months ago
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The best way is to keep doing something, try doing things new to you and your child and build new memories, maybe get a pet a small cat or dog, hang out with friends. I hope the best for you - 4 months ago
No I talked to him over the weekend and he said he wanted to work on things I now know ware he is but he still never called me back. I had no idea ware he was for 2 weeks apparently he was with family. - 4 months ago
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Sounds like he's done. If I wasn't dead, my wife would kill me for that stunt. - 4 months ago
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Thats how I feel but I guess maybe the relationship should just end so I don't have to worry about hi shit anymore. kills me every time - 4 months ago
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It kills you and thus: He knows and doesn't care He doesn't know and doesn't care
There is no excuse for inflicting that kind of damage on your spouse. I can think of a number of reasons for this 1. so self absorbed that it didn't occur to him that there might be a problem 2. Wanting out and is forcing you to divorce him and be the "bad guy" 3. He wants some thing he doesn't think you'll give him so he is making you desperate so you are willing to concede anything.
If he left been gone for three weeks then you guys talked and never called you back I would say he is doing something behind your back! if I were you I would say screw him why let him waist your time when you could get someone so much better who wouldn't leave and then never call you back....HES NOT WORTH IT!
Yeah when I did talk to him he said we should be separated for a bit but neither of us could see other people or go out. blah blah Basically trying to control me at the same time. It is harder for our kids then it is for me. Don't get me wrong it is very hard. But the baby cries daily wondering ware daddy is. - 4 months ago
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Yea that would be hard for the kids!!! I feel so bad for you guys! I hope you can get through this and that the kids will be ok! - 4 months ago
Im not SURE that's the smartest thing to do I mean you are still married. I'm not saying put your whole life on hold for someone who's been gone three weeks and you have no clue where he is , but jeez it maybe a little 2 soon to be jumping the gun. Take time to think and figure things out. Saying screw it would be like saying it never meant S@^$ to you and since it did ( I hope and assume) you need to smart about this. Think it over . Although this is kind of random , you got me wondering where he is
We have been together for 7 years. He up and quit his job one day and moved to the mountains and told me he got a job fishing. That he now had a dream job and I should be happy for him. We have a 2 year old who cries daily and dad don't even want to call. I guess he just lost it I seen him a little over a week ago and he said he wanted to work things out and we were together. But then no call again..... I'm so confused - 4 months ago
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I feel bad for you. I can't imagine what it must be like to be you right now , but I wish you nothing , but the best. Your right it does seem like he just lost it. - 4 months ago
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