Can I have any advice on how to repair or heal our relationship?

I was in the same boat I had a boyfriend that I had planned to spend the rest of my life that constantly criticized me and told me that because I didn't do things his way that there was something wrong with me and it only got worst I felt that I couldn't find anyone else and I know that it has hurt my relationships since. I did try to change for him around my two year mark to try and be who he wanted me to be. I never made him happy and I was always so sad. Unfortunately I feel that you need to move on to be with someone who loves you and respects the person you are. Usually the more you get to know someone the more you see their true colors and most likely this is the who your guy is.

Oh dear. Hun I know when you really love someone, it's hard to see and accept that he could be doing all these things to you. By the sounds of it, he's being very emotionally abusive towards you. I don't know why but he could be diverting his frustrations about his own shortcomings as a guy towards you. This kind of relationship isn't healthy. You said that he laughs at you and calls you a 'baby' when you cry in front of him. He should be holding you and comforting you when you're not feeling well instead of putting you down even more. He's bullying you and you need to stand up for yourself. He doesn't deserve you and I think you've let him walk all over you too much and now he thinks he can keep doing this to you. I really hope you get out of this relationship soon as emotional abuse tends to escalate to physical abuse. If he loves you he'll seek therapy and stop treating you like this. But to be honest, I think you need some time to yourself to reflect and heal as an individual before getting into another relationship or continuing to work things out with him.

Be strong and believe that you are good person who deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. Nobody should make you feel so small and cause you to belittle yourself. You must learn to cherish yourself because you're a wonderful human being and you deserve to be with someone who sees that in you.

Hun I am real sorry about your situation. my relationship real f***ed up too. as for you take it one day at a time. go out with him more try and see why he treatin you this way. question have you ever though he cheated on you my guess he haven't you are arguing about stuff you both seen to be pretty loyal that's is good. do you guys make out and stuff still. I can really tell you love him. I love my guy a lot but he a major cheater I am not sure what to do if you want to chat and have yahoo messager tell me your name girlie

You sound like a really nice girl. I'm sad to hear that you're not being treated right. It looks like you are not the one who should be apologizing. If you're willing to change for him, he should be willing to do the same. You don't need to be staying in a relationship when there's no respect. You deserve better. I think what you should do is to start gaining self-esteem and respect.

How long have you two been together? Sounds like he doesn't even want to try. He won't listen to your thoughts and try to compromise, instead just blames whatever on you. it's not right. I was in a guy, this was the third time we tried out the relationship, and he was great at first, he once again apologized for everything in the past in a card with a necklace he bought me for x-mas and told me he hoped that would be a start for making it all up to me. I had doubt until that point. Then he started acting like he didn't even want to touch me, didn't care if he saw me or not, he'd never call me I had to call him, I'd have to ask for a hug and pull him back in to kiss me. After about 4 miserable months of that treatment I broke up with him, and once again he didn't care and it was obvious. And it didn't take long before I realized that we really were not supposed to end up together, we only clicked well when we first began the relationship 6 years earlier. And it took me 3 break ups to realize it. Now he is engaged to someone perfect for him and I'm happy for him.
So my advice is break up with him, I know it's hard I had an anxiety attack all day before breaking up. But ya know what? That is the moment you'll really find out how much he really loves you. If he fights with you to stay together then talk things out. If he doesn't fit, he's not worth the tears or the effort. As much as it hurts at that moment it'll get better and you'll be able to find someone that really loves you and never puts you down. And doesn't anything for you and doesn't let you do all the work in the relationship. It's hard.....but you'd be happier if that is the outcome. I've experience many different relationships in life, and there is only one in the past I have no regrets over. I'm currently in a relationship 2 years after the break up with the a-hole I talked about and I can't believe I have someone so great, he's about everything I've wanted in a guy. I hope you find the same either rekindling with your boyfriend or finding someone new. Good luck.

Wow lol that is a lot! For a start, never think you can't live with out someone! If you two did decide to go your separate ways you can move on. Never think you have to depend on someone!
Talk to him tell him that it makes you up-set, if he laughs at you he clearly is the wrong person to give the time of day too. .NEVER change who you are to please him!!!! You are who you are and if he can't except that MOVE ON... by the sounds of it he sounds like a jerk, you don't need a person like that in your life you can a will do better!
A relationship is a 50/50 deal... You have to give a little to get it back in return, next time he gos to the gym ask if you can join him!
Personally I think you should try to move on, BUT THATS MY OPINION!

Other people can only offer opinions, we are not in the relationship, and would all do different things. I think you should confront him, if he blows you off, he clearly is the wrong person to be with...
I want you to take a good hard read at what you have just posted, now go and say this ALL to him!