I used to believe in soul mates and finding "the one" but after so many relationships have began and then later ended, I stopped believing in such a thing. Currently I'm taking a break from the dating world, there's is just so much rejection a person can take before they finally throw the towel in. At least for awhile.
No one is going to find their soul-mate. A soul mate is created...........have you ever seen an elderly couple (married 40, 5yrs) who are walking holding hands.......their soul mates........ Men and woman bond over time through mental and physical contact........without those two forms of communication going you ....their is no bonding going on that eventually creates soul-mates. Summer time is a good time to be single...have a blast! - 4 months ago
I think there are many women out there I could be happy with... and that's part of my problem; should I just choose one even though I know someone else will come along?
I'd like to think I'm not just settling by picking one out of the crowd.
It would be nice if there was a "the one". I wouldn't stress about it so much in that case.
So you don't think you could spend your life with someone? - 4 months ago
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I could try; but what if they die early? Am I going to say, I'm not going to date again because I was meant only to have a relationship with one person? No. I could try to find somebody and strive to live together; that could happen; I have met couples that have been married for 50 years, so sure, is possible; however, I have also seen very stable relationships where the couple just got tired of each other cause they had nothing else to offer to each other, so they decided to amicably split. - 4 months ago
Well, first we have to agree that there is no such thing as a "perfect match". Even the best couples you know still have little things that aren't perfect. So with that being said, how can you really compare the "imperfectness" of millions of possible people?
People who claim that there exists just one "soul mate" usually say that when they're in a fantastic relationship..but a lot of times, that relationship goes sour. Wouldn't this disprove the soul mate theory? They'll tell you "well it just means that he wasn't the One." But they'll keep saying the next guy IS the One, until they break up too.
It's a crutch used by people to either solidify their current relationship, or spark their optimism for finding a good relationship. It's as vague and hollow as the notion that "everything happens for a reason." Psychological crutches and nothing more.
i believe in love but soul mates for everyone nope not everyone is lucky enough to share there life with someone and people need to realise been in love and marriage isn't meant to be easy or nice all the time your going to want to kill each other at times but if you love each other you will work at it not like most people now a days who say love doesn't exist or who break up all the time they clearly don't know what love is! if we all have soul mates surely we would cross paths in our lives? but then not everyone ends up with someone so I don't believe in them
I think there are too many people in the world for there to be such a thing as "soul mates." You might find someone who compliments you well in some ways, but there's always someone else out there who compliments you in other ways.
I do believe it's possible for two people to spend their lives together though. My grandparents were married over 50 years before my grandfather died, and they clearly loved each other. But as happy as they were together, I think there are people out there who they could've been just as happy with.
I would like to believe that there is. Wouldn't it be nice if everybody could find that one special someone? But looking around, that's not the case is it?
I used to think so. But as I get older and experience life more. I think there are people that you will come across that will just come and go and others that will make an impact in your life.
There are people who I never thought I'd date or want to date because they were so the opposite of what I wanted but they turned out to be the most amazing people on the planet and they affected the biggest change in my life.
So to answer your question there are going to be a dozen of people that you will learn a lot from in this place we call life.
It's like that quote
"Some people enter our lives and leave as quickly as they came, while others leave footprints on our hearts and we are never, ever the same."
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