What should I do and what would you do in this situation?

Have you any proof he does treat her like crap? I have a feeling she's just using you rather than fixing the situation because she's not getting what she needs in her marriage.

Move on!

How would you ever be able to trust her if the two of you did get together? If you're with someone who has cheated before, you can be pretty sure it won't be different with you, no matter how great you are.

It doesn't sound like it's just about the sex for you: you sound emotionally entangled, which is not a good thing in this case.

Show yourself some respect - not to mention respect for her H and her marriage vows, even if she isn't showing it - and find a single(!) girl who can really be there for you.

The fact remains that she is married. If she loves you, she needs to leave him first. You need to get out of this situation before her husband finds out and comes after you. I think you are playing with fire. Don't take any excuses from her. If she is staying with her husband for financial reasons, then it doesn't sound good anyway. I'd be careful, and if I were you, I'd let her know that AFTER she's a free woman, and can fully give YOU her whole heart, that you'll be there, but until then, you need to back away. She cannot have her cake and eat it too. Good luck, don't be a doormat.

There is never a right reason to cheat on someone in any situation. It is something that I regret in my life, but I have dated a married man. They eventually ended up getting separated and getting a divorce not because of me, but because they were in a unhappy marriage. But, I'm sure me being in the picture didn't help the situation at all. If she can cheat on her husband for you, she can cheat on you for any guy. I learned it the hard way. I hope that you do what's right before the situation gets more complicated than it is now.

Your sleeping with a married woman!!!!! Do you think if you where married and your wife was justifying sleeping with a 23 year old that you treat her crappy and suck in bed, you'd say oh it's ok honey your right.

The other thing if she cheats on her husband because she is to immature to seek professional help for her marriage or even herself what makes you think that she isn't going to cheat on you? You would never trust this woman.

It obvious you two have great physical chemistry but nothing else and how could you?

This woman should not being having an affair, she should act like a big girl and make a decision to either give her husband the benefit of doubt and see he want to work it out or she should leave and file for divorce before she starts sleeping with another man.

I hope no one ever f***s your wife when you get married, and tries to justify it by saying your a shit head and you suck in bed. That would really devastate you would it.

Be a grown up and break it off with her and go find your own woman.

Where are your morales????

Don't you see your only complicating your young life even more and your wreaking her havoc!!!

Tell her when she files for divorce and she has the court papers in hand the two of you can see each other then.

Doesn't anyone take their vows serious...........they say for better or worse...........we will work it out..........till death we do part!

I have never cheated nor have I ever been cheated on by my hubby because we talk, we are dedicated to one another and we tell each other what the other needs and wants..........

I blame her more than you, your still a kid who is finding his place in life............but at the same time your not a baby anymore and you know right from wrong.

This is the problem in relationships...........NO ONE KNOWS HOW TO COMMUNICATE!!!

Just a couple of comments.

How do you know her husband treats her like crap. If you're just getting it from her, then she may be lying. She must be a liar in order to carry on an affair.

Cheaters are always cheaters. If it works out for you guys then she will do the same to you. It's just a matter of time.

It appears that she's enjoying the attention from you right now, so I suggest you do the same and not get too serious about this. It's just an affair. Keep it in perspective.

Sounds to me like you're being used. I mean, emotionally that is. The writing is on the wall---this woman won't leave the hubby, and you'll be wasting your youth waiting for her to leave; I say, get yourself emotionally detached, continue the booty calls if you need the sex, and find yourself a mentally stable woman; if the hubby truly doesn't provide all that she needs, then why is she still hanging around him? By the way, assuming that she leaves her husband now, and she gets with you, what guarantees that she is not going to pull the same number on you? Before you become a full jackass, I would cut the losses and move on, cause you're on your way to full jackass land.