Ok, there's this guy I've been friends with for forever and I've always wanted to be more than friends, but it was never the right time. Somehow in all this time we've always managed to miss each other that way. Anyway I finally told him how I've always felt, including telling him that I'm in love with him. He didn't say anything, which is pretty much the reaction I was expecting, but he didn't run away either. I've had a lot of time to think about this and he hasn't, but now I'm wondering how long should I wait for an answer? Does it usually take a guy a few days? Weeks? Months? Any thoughts on this matter would be greatly appreciated. If you need more details on our situation just let me know. Thanks in advance!
I did this to a guy awhile back and he also didn't run away the only thing is I'm always the one starting a convo with him now, everything else is the same just I'm the one starting everything now. If he didn't feel the same way, or didn't even like you he would have ran and just stop talking to you all together. and since he is then give him time, Some guys it could take a while to say
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
First, a little spontaneity I would ask my date to meet me somewhere -- A museum, or park, some place in which casual conversation could be backed by something visual stimulating. A nice dress shirt, something not just a "button down", jeans and either nice shoes, or matching casual sneakers The date should end with each of us wanting to know more about each other. Unless...
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That there is more to find out... no, lol --> An introduction to my lifestyle, what I am currently doing and how I spend my free time. Maybe introduce something that I've been thinking about, so that next time, there can be a follow-up to it. Of course I would make sure she knows about my hobbies, and maybe one fun fact, like my celebrity relative or my 5-minutes of fame.