It all started like this. She told me one day in class that she was attracted to some girl in her class, just the looks. I reacted weird, I was mad but in the same time it was kinda sexy. So time passed, and one day I told her to just talk to her and maybe they could be friends and talk or something. Then I found out she was a lesbian(the other girl), full and grown. I don't know but something happened, they started to text each other, they texted alot, to the point I got jealous. It did not feel right, to another point where I told her I was afraid that she like her and afraid of loosing her. She promised me that was never going to happen. Things got worse to the point where I blew up and told her to choose between me or her. My girlfriend told her everything, the truth. something happened and they stoped texting and started to try not to talk as much. Then the other girl started to get all emo, so I let them talk again, jsut for things can get better. Time passed again. Things got worse we fought all the time about that, one day I just wanted to get away from everything, a "break" to make things better, for us. So I broke up with her in the best way possible. Next day I found out that she was talking to her till 3 in the morning, which she never does with me. She had her freedom from me and fell in more love with her, she was free from me. Also my girlfriend asked her to be her grilfriend, that lasted an hour. till she confesed everything to me at night and apooligized and told me that that had made her realize how much she loved me, I could not feel a thing. She promised that would of never happend. It's was the worst thing in my life. Next day, I was a walikg turd. I could not take it and went to her house and forgave her. Story goes on, but I want know, what you guys have to say. advice, cause I still can't get over this, I let them talk, they want to go out, and I know for a fact that the other girl is still in love with my girlfriend. sooo much! and I can't do anything because I would be the bad boyfriend if I got in between.
In my opinion, you need to talk to her and I don't mean just a brief, "I feel uneasy about her", you need to really lay down all you feelings and ask her what her thoughts are, she also needs to put herself in your shoes I mean, I would feel really UNEASY if this were to happen to me. You have sound "proofs".
It's an issue that both of you need to talk about and establish some ground.
Another important thing that you need to ask/understand is that if you are still having doubts it has to be because deep inside you know that something is not right.
why would it make you a bad boyfriend if you got "between" them? If this chick was another guy, you wouldn't take that from her. if you think this girl is still in love w/your girlfriend and your girlfriend doesn't see it, or wants to explore that, too, than you need to let her go. just because this "other person" is a girl doesn't mean that you don't have any right to let your girlfriend know what you're feeling and that you can't put up with this back-and-forth. If the "other person" were a guy, I'm sure you wouldn't be as understanding.
I'm a straight female but I like looking at other females. I find them attractive and think that they're beautiful, but I would never do anything with them. I used to have a boyfriend who would always accuse of me of being a bisexual, which really irritated me. But if she talks to her till 3 in the morning, this is more serious. Involving a 3rd person in a relationship is never a good thing. I would have to agree that she needs to find out who she wants to be with.
If she was quick to leave you for her and then later realized she would rather be with you and then again realized that she wanted to be with this other girl then you she just leave her completely and never look back. Your girlfriend is continuing to cheat on you with your permission. Yes you are at fault for even thinking that nothing would happen between your girl and this other girl but that's how we live and then learn to never do again.
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