so my boyfriend has told me that if I got pregnant he would want me to have an abortion. I understand that I would be way young to have a baby because I am not even 18 yet, and I am on birth control and everything. but still, if I got pregnant I would want to keep it, because even though I am pro choice, I would never have an abortion, because I wouldn't want to take a life because of something that I did, and I know that I would for sure want to keep it if I got pregnant. I am so worried that if I accidentally got pregnant he really would be angry (although I know he wouldn't try to force me) to have an abortion. how do I explain to him how I feel about it, he doesn't understand.
I gotta agree with Jarett and Natalie. if you don't want to have a baby don't have sex even if your using every thing you can not to have a baby (but still having sex) there's still that chance and I don't care how lucky he feels or you feel don't have sex unless you want one
Natalie said it best. If you don't want to get pregnant, don't then don't have sex. Just like if you don't want to have to go to Iraq, then don't sign up for the military. Pretty simple if you ask me. One doesn't necessarily mean the other is going to happen, but it definitely increases your chances from 0 to a lot.
Its important to be on the same page when it comes to big, life changing things like pregnancy. We know what you want, and what he wants.so lets put it into perspective. Lets say you do get pregnant. Are you willing to accept the reality that this guy may not want to have anything to do with his child-or you-once you become pregnant? This is a very possible reality that many many girls out there have encountered, probably from the beginning of mankind! Are you willing to be a single parent? Nevermind talking to him about it, or even trying to get him to understand. Trying to change someone, especially about scary things like having babies, is many times futile. Focus on yourself and what you would want for a family, because having sex is the first step. Is having sex worth the trouble? Or moreso, is your boyfriend worth it?
Just make sure you don't have sex with him. If you don't feel his support then why take any chances?
Next time you hang out, just tell him the same thing you have told us here. Tell him that it bothers you for the fact he'd want the baby gone. Tell him you worry and that this is something you shouldn't have to.
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