I am a female who have always liked guys. I have a female best friend who has liked woman for a while. I developed feelings for her, and asked her if she liked me, but she said that she didn't. I am confused when one day we watched a movie I laid my head on her lap and she put her arm around me. Also, I notice that she puts her arm around me when we sleep. Although her arm isn't around me the whole night, but still? We have been friends for many years, and she didn't always put her arms around me. She didn't put her arms around me after I told her. It was a couple of months later, when she started doing it. (And now she has a girlfriend. ) But she still told me that she doesn't like me like that. I asked her why she put her arm around me, and she said because it is or I am comfortable( can't remember). Also, my friend said that she could never look at me like that, or kiss me, but I asked her if she would kiss one of our other friends (who is straight) she said yeah. Oh, and I am an attractive person too. So, I know it has nothing to do with looks. Can someone please help me?
Yes, I have told her that I liked her, but she said that she only views me as a friend. But another thing that I would like to mention is that once, I put a picture of me that was in her phone as a screen saver. That is when she didn't tell her that I liked her, but after I told her that I like her, she told me that she kind of sensed that I liked her because she said when people put their picture as a screen saver in other peoples phone, it is a sign of likeness. Okay, a couple of months later, I was telling her about my job, and she asked if I am going to put up a picture of her. When she asked me that, I didn't know if their was a sign of her liking me, or she was just being goofy. Oh, and everyone thinks that we like each other for some reason. I feel like they may think that about her because they know she likes girls, but with me, people say that I seem like I get j jealous.
It sounds like you are just a little curious. There is nothing wrong with being curious, but in some things you should be a little more cautious. It also sounds like your friend likes you alot. She also knows that this is new territory that you have been curious about. She sounds just like that you have grown together and she is watching out for you. I don't think you should push yourself on her, especially after she has let you know that she has no interest for you like that. However, since you are close friends, maybe you should tell her that you would like to have a frank discussion about your new feelings and what and why you think you want to move on this. Good Luck, Hang in there and it will be worked out!
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