I made a terrible mistake. I regret it more than I can express. My boyfriend has since decided to look past it and look towards our future. But I can't get over it. I hate myself for what I did. I've contemplated and executed ways to hurt myself. That maybe somehow by punishing myself I could get over it. I can't get over letting myself down and letting him down. I abandoned my own morals. I've become a hypocrite. Nothing I say has meaning anymore. I've done exactly what I told myself I would never do. I don't know what to do about it. I'm afraid to bring it up with my boyfriend again. I don't want to open the wound nor do I want him to worry about me. Besides, he has his own problems. I'm supposed to be his rock. How can I be there for him if I'm crumbling myself? I'm at a loss.
You are your boyfriends "rock" as you put it, as well as he should be yours. If he is wanting to look to and work towards to future of the 2 of you, then he is willing to help you though this time as well. If your B/F is as good of a guy as you are making him out to be here, he will understand that you may need moral or emotional support here as well. But if he is like most guys, he may not know you need that support now by the hints that women sometimes try to use to get their men to see. He may need you to talk to him about it and from there he will be able to help you though this. You need his support as much as he will need yours. Communication is a very key part of a relationship and is even more important during the rough times. Talk to him, don't worry about opening a wound. It sounds like the wound has not yet healed, at least for you, for it to be reopened. Together, the two of you will be able to heal the wound.
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i think if you want to get a better help we should know about the mistake.
maybe it's not that big mistake like you see it. maybe there's a way to work it out.
anyways if your boyfriend looked past it and wanted to look towards your future together why do you want to stand in front of that ? this way you're double hurting your boyfriend . you did the mistake and you're not giving yourself and your boyfriend a chance to move on.
look, believe me in this, time heals everything no matter how big it was, time let you get over anything.
so just give yourself a brake and start over. that's the beauty of life, you can always start over !
it's great that you wanna be a rock to your bf but you never get anywhere if you don't try to. : = ]
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I think I use situations to start conversations...
If I'm approaching a female, I'd start by introducing myself, and following up with a compliment of why I had to introduce my self.
How do they typically respond?
If she is interested, she would ask questions, or make small talk while giving off some type of body language.
If she is not interested, she listens to whatever I say, and tells me something like she really into someone right now, but she appreciates the approach.
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