Why does it hurt so much?

Flirting aside (I'll come back to that); you can't beat yourself up over life's turn of event's up until this point in your life. Somethings are in your control, other's are not. You got to work with what you can control, and go with the flow of what's out of your control. Everyday(and even if not everyday, there's always brainstorming) there's going to be something either little or big that you can do/acquire/learn/whatever to better yourself but you got to look for it and make it happen. Then you got to build on it. Whether it's redecorating/rearranging your room or making some kind of addition to your style or learning a phrase from a foreign language ."Quiero su sonrisa (lol,'I like your smile')". anything really, but you got to enjoy what your doing. Other wise, it can get to be like going through the motions of the same thing over and over again. That's the thing about variety, people sometimes hate change but love variety and the little things.

And also, I would think about what ways of flirting would help accent to who you are and how you react to people. Like ask some narrowed down questions about what relates to you personally, or even put yourself in hypothetical situations to see how guys would respond to what you would do.

But smiling is a key thing, along with eye contact. That gets a "hey, what's up?" out of someone. Looking down or away and carrying around stress makes people say "hey, what's wrong?" And sarcasm is another thing, it gives the person the impression "okay it's play time" as long as it's not saying something out of context. There's really a lot to it, the more creative you are.

Hunny, you have PLENTY of time. Be patient! I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 18. You have to be picky, and you have to be patient. Wait for a good guy to come along. But are you shy? It's hard to tell why you don't have a b/f, because I don't know what you look like, I don't know your personality. But I'm sure you're probably really shy.

Honey it is a normal and natural feeling to want a boyfriend at your age. We all long for human connection from the day we are born. I don't think your a baby your but I wonder are you negative a lot of the time (not saying you are, just asking you to do a self-inventory). If we are positive on the inside and project confidence it radiates on the outside.and your beauty shines on the outside for others to see.

Focus more on yourself, behaviors, attitude and make some goals to works towards.building self-worth and identity, having drive and ambition is what gets us noticed.

Be patient your still young and have a lifetime of men coming your way.trust me!