Love is a several things. First, it's sexual attraction, which is a feeling which you can act on or not. After about 6 months and lots of sex, people either find a reason to stay or move on to the next. As such, love at first sight doesn't happens so much as lust that turns out to be a good guess.
Love is a statement of value to the viewer. As such, it always has to be a choice. If someone isn't valuable to me personally, there is no possibility of love. Love is a judgment rather than magic.
I think that sometimes it can be different and sometimes its the same. And OF COURSE you can fall for someone you had no mind to fall for. ( I know I spelled course wrong but I can't think right now.) Love can happen to anyone. Love is very very mysterious and not a lot of people( if any) can figure love out.
YES, I have a FWB and I thought that's all it was going to be but I have fallen badly for him. I went into with no intention of even trying to like him but now I'm totally crazy for him
Yes, you can fall for someone that you had no intention of falling for. If you are around a person a lot, and get to know them really well and you laugh and stay up all night, then yes it can happen. First people start of as friends, then feelings develop. That is why I feel like it is hard to be in a relationship with someone and have an opposite sex best friend because I feel like all best friends have some type of emotion with one another.
love is definitely not a choice! because I've had fellas who were everything I'm looking for in a fella but I couldn't make myself love them if I could of I would but you can't help who you love and who you don't!
as for intentionally falling for someone I don't believe that's true.i believe you can let down barriers which you normally have up because you are open to the idea of more with the person
I believe love happens unintentionally and sometimes we fall for the person we had no idea we would fall for. Also, girls are more likely to know when they are in love, the moment it happens while it would take a longer time for a guy to decipher his feelings and know that he's in love.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Something simple in clothing like a jeans and a nice top. We would go to something lighthearted and fun like a carnival or amusement park. Followed by dinner at a 50's type of diner, which is always fun for me.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Hopefully my name LOL...I'm kidding. But besides that, hopefully he'd know what I did for a living, some of my interests, and if he wanted to know about my family he'd have at least known how many siblings I have and he gets a bonus point if he asks what I plan on doing the following weekend. *hint hint*
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I don't really have any advice that everyone else didn't already cover,... I just wanted to make an observation.If we (guys) want sex too much, we are horny, and just want you for your bodies.If we...
Not entirely...it may make him wonder what you're REALLY like inside...but not enough to make him not like you...unless he's afraid of what his "friends" think bout you...or him.
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