Why me all the time?

sorry about before I should have worded it differently I wasn't meaning to imply your a tramp.

i was trying to say the opposite. being the opposite of a tramp often makes guys more attracted.

girls like yourself that are intelligent, classy great to talk to are really attractive

Beyond the obvious answer that "Men are Pigs"?

Certain types of girls are so comfortable that they are great to hang out with, others might be vacuous hotties that you want to bone ASAP and then forget as soon as the notch is carved in the belt but it's a rare one that you want to take home to Mother. Don't despair but just ask yourself, Do you embody all of those nurturing traits that spell out happy homemaker? Your age will tend to make this more difficult as you've already noticed.

It could be worse if you didn't even attract guys for sex. I wish you the best.

You are obviously a very attractive woman, who takes care of herself and her body. This also means that you probably look good in most anything, even your homely clothes. Your age also doesn't help because it puts you in a 'not innocent to sex' category like maybe a 20 year old in your same situation would be. It feels like these guys see an attractive woman at a great age with no man to satisfy her. They also think probably think you don't get enough attention, so you might turn your head on the account that they are married or in another relationship.

This is the curse of the beautiful. You need to stay strong and probably change your scenery. Not every man is out for just sex, but many are. Be aware of your signals. Even at 36, you still may not realize that maybe the way you speak is seductive or that the way you move is sexy. Just based on your description, you are an ideal woman, with looks, loyalty, brains, and honesty.

a girl with a great personality and that is a joy to be around is far more alluring than a tramp. they are looking to fill a void with sex but don't know that there's anything else to fill it with.
guys like someone they can talk to and have fun with if there's sex on the side all the better.

not all of us are like that but it may be along the lines of what's happening to you

There are a lot of questions here so I will split them up

-People get asked for sex if they seem approachable and friendly. Looks are less important than appearing receptive to play.

-People who are cheating tend to hit on everyone they get their sight on. You just happen to be there.

-Some people believe that ordinary looking women are more likely to f*** you because they have less options (generally not true fwiw).

-most relationships start with sexual interest and build from there so some of these propositions might actually be proto-relationships.

the same thing always happens to me, and I'm only 17. I mean, I think its just cause guys want a challenge. you appear to be classy and what they could call 'hard to get'. so then once the guy 'gets' you, he may only want sex if he was only attracted to you for the thrill of the chase.

yea, it sucks, but I think its true. just keep trying and the right guy should come around sooner or later.

and if you don't mind helping me out real quick ill give you the short summary.

we liked eachother, we hooked up once after hanging out for two weeks. it was great, we were really into eachother. then rumors started gettign out about us so I freaked and stopped talking to the guy. I was scared I was gettign too attached and that he was just using me. but then we kept seeing each other at parties, and we'd just dance and he'd feel me up. but nothing more. then I texted him about a month ago saying its stupid we can't just be friends. so we started talking again and we spilled our guts. he said he really liked me after we hooked up, and I said I really liked him. we then agreed to hangout that weekend, and he clearly implied he wanted to hu during the movie like we did last time. but then the day comes, and I texted him asking if we're still hanging out. he never replied. then he texted me a week later asking me if I wanted to go to the movies. and I just said "well you blew me off the other week. don't know what that was about" . we haven't talked since. he's away until august. I don't know what to do I feel like I've put myself out there so much to get him to give me another chance and nothing is working. I want to be with him so bad, I just can't get over this guy

HELP

well you should dress more normally and thinking to yourself that you should think that your always beautiful no matter what & so all the guys wouldn't come up to you, or be looking at you at any point, or having to want you to used you to have sex with you! just be yourself and take good care of yourself & make the right choice for yourself