My girlfriend and I have been living together for over a year. Before we actually got together we where "friends with benefits". she told me before we started dating that she has cheated on everyone she's been in a relationship with except one guy that she dated in highschool . But I'm different. (She promised that she would never cheat on me).two of which she had cheated on numerous times and they still took her back. I don't understand that. and she is still friends with a lot of the guys that she cheated on and still talks to them every once in a while. she says that they where better off as friends and that she still slept with them after they had broke up.
One of her ex's is her goto guy for whenever she has a problem. she calls this guy whenever she's feeling depressed or having a bad day.I asked her why she doesn't talk to me about these things. "And she says that I don't understand." and I won't understand unless she doesn't talk to me.Or she doesn't want me to understand.she's not comfortable talking to me for some reason.
And I've had 2 past relationships go sour because my girlfriends decided they wanted someone else and didn't tell me until after they had slept with another guy. which sucks!. I want to believe her I really do but there's just a lot of little things that she does that make me doubt her words.
Two of them are in the questions in the behavior section. As well as when were hangin out with her friends and she gets a few drinks in her.she does things that just straight up piss me off and when(calmly) I tell her that that she's making me angry. and she will apologize and we'll make up. and she'll start the same crap all over again. I don't understand why she's so quick to turn her back on me. I know people say alcohol brings out the real person in all of us. Personally I'm a happy drunk. but I think she's a bi-polar drunk if there is such a thing.
Don't get me wrong. I know from reading this she sounds like a total douche. She's not. Its just these are the things have been bothering me.
ok I think that you should either break up with her if its bothering you so much or you can be very very cautious with her and if something worse happens then just break up with her. No woman is worth that much trouble.
Until she does something to you to make you not trust her, I'd give her the benefit of the doubt. I have always been a bit of a player-type myself, until I met my most recent boyfriend. he was the first guy I did not cheat on- but when you meet someone you truly love, you don't have the desire to cheat on them. She sounds like she's a bit of a flirt, and likes to talk to guys- but that might just be for her self esteem. When it comes down to the end of the night, she's with you and that's all that matters. I'd say be careful, but I would believe her until she proves you wrong.
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Casual but nice dinner then movies then a walk on the beach (in summer) then sitting by a bonfire and watching the stars and cuddling/making out if we felt like it. I would just wear jeans, a t shirt, flip flops and maybe a jacket. I would drive her home and kiss at the doorstep.
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