I wish my boyfriend and I could have an open relationship. He would still be my main "man" but I think that opening ourselves up to new experiences would really help us be more open with each other. And hiding it is just hurtful.
Actually, you can have an open relationship. The interesting thing is that more people than you might guess are ok with it as long as they have some reassurance that in doing so, they aren't giving up their relationship with you. I find that open relationships that are honest tend to be a lot more stable and enduring than monogamous relationships because they have to be more honest about what they want and who they are. - 2 months ago
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(Age:Over 45)
When: 2 months ago
The threat is being left out of a very personal activity. Sex is not an activity like playing tennis or a game of pool. Sex is very special and unique that can be cheapen by a lust searching jerk. Sorry for the name, but it usually a jerk, male or female that would share a desire for extra-curricular activity. This person does not belong in a relationship which would make the playing field fair. No need to say anything for both parties will be used with no interest in the other accept lustful sex. To bad, but most people who like this kind fun and the stability of true relationship. At any rate, don't get in a relationship and there is no threat. Just free fall with all who want meaningless sex driven by lust. It will get old and feel rather cold.
You know, I can't actually agree with your analysis. Not everyone who enjoys multiple partners is a jerk or emotionally immature. Some people are capable of doing it above board and giving their partner the same rights. - 2 months ago
i'm a natural worry wart and have tendencies to get paranoid by comments like these. if I heard my partner say that he was sexually attracted to someone else I would being to question his trust, loyalty, if he's in the relationship for sex, or to just use me in some way. I'd be glad for his honesty but he shouldn't expect me to stay with him. I'd probably break up with the guy even though I felt a 'deep' emotional connection with him. to me, sex isn't just a physical act but an extension of my emotions so for someone to say that he's not sexually attracted to me, to me it'd translate as I don't care about you anymore and I want to go and explore my other options. what's the point in staying with someone who's fickle and wants to jump from one pod to the other? some may think that I'm judgmental but I will not stay in a fruitless relationship only to be played. even if he came crawling back in all fours, I don't think I'd take him back either. once something's broken, what's the point in fixing it?
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What is your favorite outfit for a night out with friends?
A cute tee with some skinnyleg jeans and rockin a pair of vans
How do you style your hair and do your make-up?
I pretty much do my hair any way on day curly straight crumped or beach wave I go easy with the make up a little eyeliner light brown and a lil lip gloss see that ain't too much
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