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hmmm.well if she has exams, I'd be patient and wait it out a bit longer. it's obvious that she's taking the time to think about things, but she's also preoccupied with school. having to deal with two big things at the same time is exhausting so don't put the pressure on her. if she ends up not doing well in her exams, she'll only resent you more. if she said that she'll make a decision in 10 days, then give her that space. she knows that you're trying to get in touch with her but she's ignoring you because she's not ready to talk to you. so instead of trying to get something out of her, just wait for her to come to you. so like I said, wait 10 days. if she doesn't say or do anything by that time then try e-mailing her. tell her how you feel about things. be honest and frank with her. in the meantime, try to keep yourself busy and try not to think too much about this. if you keep thinking about it, you'll only drive yourself crazy. it's like watching water in a kettle boil. the more you watch it, the longer it takes for the water to boil, but if you go away for a bit it'll seem like the wait wasn't as long as you expected. I know it's tough, but at the moment you can't do anything else but wait. it's completely out of your hands now. so just be patient.
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