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Girlfriend issues,she wants space and time to think?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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my girl friend of six months has been giving me the cold shoulder for over 2 weeks now.i called her on our monthly anniversary and asked her why has she not been so cold and she replied she kinda likes and and when I asked her that if she wants to be in this relationship she was like no because her sister doesn't want her to be in this relationship and her sister is married to my elder brother and she is living with us.she said her sister happiness is her happiness,but I remember that her sister said not to date me a month ago and still we were going out, now all of a sudden she's putting this excuse in my face.now she is having her exams and she was like she will make a decison when her exams finish in 10 days time. I don't know what to do should I txt her saying something nice because I really love her a lot and I have this ring with me as well which I want to give to her.could you kindly guide me on how to get her back .coz we never used to fight it was all smooth sailing and then this happened. I really plan to marry her I don't know what to do? plus she might go abroad in 3 months time to for higher studies .she is also avoiding my calls so kindly could you help me I would be very grateful to you thank you

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S8tr1234 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
hmmm.well if she has exams, I'd be patient and wait it out a bit longer. it's obvious that she's taking the time to think about things, but she's also preoccupied with school. having to deal with two big things at the same time is exhausting so don't put the pressure on her. if she ends up not doing well in her exams, she'll only resent you more. if she said that she'll make a decision in 10 days, then give her that space. she knows that you're trying to get in touch with her but she's ignoring you because she's not ready to talk to you. so instead of trying to get something out of her, just wait for her to come to you. so like I said, wait 10 days. if she doesn't say or do anything by that time then try e-mailing her. tell her how you feel about things. be honest and frank with her. in the meantime, try to keep yourself busy and try not to think too much about this. if you keep thinking about it, you'll only drive yourself crazy. it's like watching water in a kettle boil. the more you watch it, the longer it takes for the water to boil, but if you go away for a bit it'll seem like the wait wasn't as long as you expected. I know it's tough, but at the moment you can't do anything else but wait. it's completely out of your hands now. so just be patient.
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