hey. ok I'm getting confused a lot ok I have this boyfriend and I always call him if I want to talk to him. but when I want to talk to him I can't because I'm not on the phone that much anymore and well I wish instead of me calling him most of the time what won't he ever call me? the first time he called me was when we were going out and he had to ask me a question about a note that someone told him that I said something bad and then the second time he had called me all he wanted to do was to see if I would go somewhere with him. I'm saying that a bad thing or anything but its like that's all he calls about is to ask me to go somewhere with him. and my friend new about this and she told me that he was losing interest but I don't know if that's true and my friend doesn't even know him she had the same prob and it happened to her but just because it happened to her doesn't mean it would happen to me right? so what's the real reason why he won't call me? and its not that he has forgotten my # or anything cause I know he has it and I wish he would check his e-mail once in awhile to
are you doing all the calling? do you see him often? do you always initiate everything while he just follows up or does very little in return? seems a bit of a selfish guy. like he only wants you there for the sake of having a girlfriend and not actually interested in making an emotional connection. if you want to test him, try to give him some space. for instance, don't call him for say 4 or 5 days and see if he'll pick up the phone to see what's up. cut the ties of communication too. like no e-mails, no texts, no chat/msn. just drop him and see if you get a reaction. at the same time you'll be teaching him a lesson by letting him feel how it feels like to be ignored. if he caves in, then he's still interested just a little selfish. you'll need to make him work for attention. guys like the challenge for some reason, I don't know why but they do. it may be that you're paying way too much attention to him. if he doesn't contact you within a week then ditch the loser. no gentleman will keep a lady. at least by then you'll know that you've been deceived by a wolf in sheep's clothing. in which case, you'll be glad to be rid of him. a guy who is deserving of you is one who will do anything he can to be with you. he would try to be by your side instead of avoiding you. he'll ask you how you are and listen to your troubles and help you get through the tough times. he'll be the first to try and make you feel better in times of need.
whichever the case, you ought to make him wait. the ball is in his court now. it's his turn to the work. so just sit and be patient and wait it out.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
Hi, I'm Dan how are you doing today?
How do they typically respond?
Generally she tells me how she is doing. From there I start normal conversations. Pick up lines generally speaking are stupid and fail a good amount of the time, being yourself and being confident and comfortable are far more important.
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When: 3 months ago
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