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My girlfriend of 1 and half years have been on a break 2 weeks and she made out with one of my friends

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confused3 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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We both knew our relationship wasn't going well. We are going to two different universities next year and even though she went away to university last year and I stayed home we know this is going to be even harder. Anyways we said we would take some time off. It seemed like she wasn't sure if she wanted to be with me or someone else instead while I just wasn't sure if we should be together or both just single. We ended up hanging out a couple times and both times she talked about getting back together and flirted and fooled around a bit. I wanted her back and felt complete alone without her but every time we wouldn't hang out she would say she just needed more time. She talked to me how she wasn't sure if she liked one of my friends who had always liked her. She said that because he was thinking about going to the same university as her just because she was there she had second thoughts about my commitment. Basically we ended up hanging out again on a saturday night. IT went good but then the next night she ended up hanging out with my friend and they made out. Now she says she made a mistake and wants me back. What do I do?

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lizzieforever01 (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
i don't think it would be worth it I'm sorry but you guys love each other give her a chance she blows it end it that's what I've got 2 say not the greatest advise but if she does that then id be like WITH my best friend I'm a girl but that gives her no right to do that
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Hamed3000
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Hamed3000 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
You said that your relationship is not going well. In addition, your Girlfriend has tried somebody else and this shows that she can do it another time.

You can give her another chance but she may sway again and find somebody else (another friend for example).

The probability of such incident is clearly high as both of you don't know if you can continue your relationship or not. In case she tries another guy, I am sure that your dignity will wore off (at least you won't feel as good as before about yourself).

Therefore, if I were in your shoes, I would chastise her to put an end to the relationship.
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Steven08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Move on and forget her if you try to get back together what makes you think it won't happen again? it is only on rare circumstances that you can forgive a girl for doing that, yea you may not be together but its the fact that she did it when she knew you would take her back anytime, the decision is really on you but my opinion would be what I said in the beginning
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