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Anonymous User (Age:30 to 35)     When: 5 months ago
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First, there is this girl in my college class.
I usually (often) when I look near her our eyes meet and then she looks away, one time I sat near her in the class and after sometime of drawing in the class she asked me for help. and I did help her but didn't go forward and you know get to know her (cause I was late for something), I didn't make any moves until the semester end and at the latest exam I decided to ask her out, and she was sitting with some of her girl friends and she said no, i am not looking into relationships now, and I said fine no problem, then she turned back to me and said But Thanks!.
anyway after this semester end, I usually bump into her in the college nowadays (its about 1 year later) and our eyes meet and then she looks away. i am sure of is that this girl is pretty shy (from friends) and she apparently doesn't go out with guys or something like that, but I really like her.so she said no cause freaked out or pissed I waited till the end of semester or what?

the problem is that she is not attending in my class no more so I see her sideways and I don't know her and she also doesn't so we can't hangout

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bigguns (Age:36 to 45)      When: 5 months ago
Perhaps she is gay? Who knows? The only thing you have to go on here is the fact that she looked at you a few times and asked for your help in class. Everyone looks around and may or may not look away when making eye contact with someone. It isn't always a solid indicator that someone finds you attractive or vice versa - it is just natural behavior. The fact that she asked for your help in class is more of an indicator. However, it could just be an indicator of your talent. She finds your quality of work higher than hers and figures you would/could provide some needed help with her work. Or, it could have been an opening made specifically for you, which you blew (hope that thing you were late for was important!). Either way, doesn't sound like there is much hope here. When you asked her out, and her reply was "I am not looking into relationships now", you might have been better served to say something like "I don't want to move in with you, I just want to take you to lunch." or something similar. She probably would have accepted an innocuous invitation like that, to which you would have been able to figure out her true reason(s) she was not into a relationship mode. Since that never happened, the best you can do is the next time you see her, walk up to her and flat out ask her out to lunch or coffee or something. The worst case would be a flat out rejection. Not that hard to take since you already have gotten one and are still interested. Good luck.
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