We love each other for nearly 6 years. He always jokes and nice but a bit typical minded. But that was not a problem. Last year we became more closed after both our families know about us. I care and love him so much. We do kiss and sometimes romance. He likes me play with his. That is common in couples and everthing was fine. He does love me too but I just don't understand why he changed. He is too excited with his chat friends. He starts to hide from me and meet the girls. He knows that I trusted him so much. My instict showed me that he is doing things behind me. I started to investigate and got to know so much stories. He is basically flirting behing me. He started this like a year ago. He chats and sends text messages very often. He never told them that he has a gf. He talks about romance to them. But he never says he loves to any of them. I caught him and spoke to him. He said that he will change. But he repeated again after 6 months. Now I am totally mad. I feel life is painful. I ignored him and told him that he will never really appreciate the true love. Now he wants me back. He wants to get married with me. He is getting onto my nerves. I wish I was a psychic and know if he really realized. I don't belive that he will change. I think he will do all this in a smarter way. I told him that I will never trust him and I do not want to marry a guy who cannot assure my happiness. But I still love him. Day by day the betrayal + the love is making me mental. Is this going to drive me crazy? Why are most guys like this?
Most guys are not like this. You just managed to pick out one that likes to play with peoples minds. Me being a guy I have weirdly been in the same exact situation almost. Only with a girl. this girl was amazing. Open hearted and beautiful. She would always be around and be the first to tell me she loved me. Everything was going awesome until she came back from a camp counseling and I found out she had met someone else. I have no idea what it was that made her leave. but later I found out she still had major feelings for me. She would come over and tell me how she felt and then leave me cold and alone. People don't change. They just open up the rest of themselves. The part of them they had been hiding. It never depends on the gender as to why someone does something. It depends on the person. Both guys and girls cheat equally because everyone is different. But no matter what anyone says you have to listen to yourself ask yourself would I want to be happy now and sad later or never happy at all.
I've been through the SAME thing. I dated this guy for a long time and shortly after our 1 yr anniversary my Bestfriend came to me and told me that he had asked her out. He had been with another friend of mine too. And many, many others. It about killed me when I broke it all off. Now 3 days ago I saw him again and he begged me to take him back. I'm single still too. He told me he was wrong, blah, blah, blah. I won't do it, I deserve better than that and why open the old wound?! I could get so much better and I'm not wasting another minute on him, much less another tear!
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