So, my girlfriend - yeah - she's amazing. She's the first girl I've actually liked (well, actually, I love her). And I can't help but want to be around her often. If I could, I would run away and go live at her house, but that's clearly not going to be accepted any time soon. Anyway, her mother told her that I was acting like a puppy dog, following her father said I was "clingy." She said that isn't a good thing in her book. I understand where they're coming from, sorta, but I love her so much. I've never met anyone like her and want to enjoy every single second I'm with her. At the same time, she's probably a bit bothered by this. I want to not be so "clingy", but at the same time make her know I still love her more than everything with all my heart. And I still also can't help the fact of how much I want to be with her. I usually always tell her, "I wish you were here with me. . .", hoping it doesn't lose meaning. But I mean it the first time I say it. How do I stop being so clingy without hurting either of us?
All girls need their alone time. When she asks for it. dont get upset. she just wants some alone time. Im pretty sure she loves you and most girls don't just say things for the heck of it. most of the times they mean it.if she says I wish you were here with me too.she means it and I think you really have nothing to worry about.
you don't need to spend every second with her to show her you love her, and if you keep add it she's going to dump you! hopefully that's all you need to know for you to calm down. Simple. enough?
Blah. I definitely don't want her to dump me. And I know spending time around her doesn't tell her I love her. I just can't help it with how amazing she is. I feel like I need to be with her every moment. - 5 months ago
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I don't know you and would care less if you guys stay together or brake up... I'm just trying to tell you that if you keep it up she'll end up dumping you... reality check bro. your kinda creepy with all that I have to be with her every second of my life. just be cool and mature. who knows maybe you'll get her to feel the same way about you this way.. and you both and can live happily ever after, wanting to be with each other all the time. - 5 months ago
=O why are you hiding these things man? You shouldn't be! but don't give her a whole scrapbook, give them separately, one at a time. that would be good enough.
well, you can enjoy looking at photos of her, write stuff about her, like I write a lot of poems and songs :S its just one way to release my feeling I guess?
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