Ok, so there's this girl I like and I know that she likes me too because we've talked bout it. As well as that she's easily one of my best friends as well and vice versa. Problem is, her parents thinks she's too young to be in a relationship (She's 16 and I'm nearly 17). She's had a boyfriend except her parents didn't know about him because they thought he was gay, and I'm not even kidding. So yeah, not only does she not listen to me whenever I bring up the topic of talking to her parents but she won't even let me get anywhere near them, like not even be with her when they pick her up from the movies or something. So basically, they don't know me at all. Thing is, I really like her and she's told me that she feels the same way. To make things more complicated, just recently, we even made out for a good bit, but she keeps saying it was completely separate to what's going on, although she says that she has no regrets about it. How do I convince her that we'll be able to work it out?
That will take some time. If she is that apprehensive to bring you anywhere near her parents, she obviously does not want to risk anything yet. I think for now you should respect the fact that she can't have a relationship, and just hang out with her as friends. If she likes you, eventually she won't be able to hold it back anymore and you can figure something out. But if you convince her to sneak around behind her parents back, that shows that you don't care about following her rules, and that you don't have much respect for her parents, which is not a good thing.
So just keep hanging out as friends, and when she's ready, she can figure something out.
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