My boyfriend and I have been together for only 3 months and I cheated on him last night. I was really drunk (not that it is an excuse) and I went pretty far with this guy who I hardly even know. My best friend and I invited him over and we were all hooking up but then he asked my friend to leave and it ended up being just me and him for the rest of the night. So this morning I told a close friend who told me I have to tell my boyfriend what happened. I texted my boyfriend telling him we need to talk about something tomorrow and he replied " did you hook up with (the guy that I hooked up with)." I just replied saying I will talk to him about it tomorrow. I am so scared for how he is going to react. Do you think there is a chance he won't break up with me? And do you think I should tell him everything me and this guy did or just say we hooked up. I'm so scared he is going to break up with me.
This happened to one of my friends, his girl (which is my friend also) went out one night and cheated on him and they were going out for 2 years, her excuse was that she just didn't feel the same about him saying she wasn't happy which in reality meant she was guilty as f*** and couldn't handle telling him the truth so she lied, if you want a relationship to work the main thing that holds it together is HONESTY, everybody has their opinions on it but this is a FACT! not telling him makes it bad for you but even worse for him when he does find out and believe me everybody finds out sooner or later, so just tell him and if he breaks up with you then you have to accept that I mean c'mon you cheated on him what do you expect? sympathy? I don't wanna sound mean but truth hurts
Can I say something, I'm in the same boat as you, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and a few weeks ago I cheated on him with another guy and I didn't know what to do at the time, then I realized that I just COULD NOT tell him, so I haven't, I still feel guilty about it but I figure since we have been together for only 3 months the guilt will go away or subside eventually. and I really don't want to hurt his feelings because he's been through enough already with his previous girlfriends, the only person I have told is my male best friend and he told me I should not tell him either, and to keep it to myself because it would be selfish to ruin my boyfriends feelings just to clear my own conscious, and that it's just not fair to him.
I'm sorry for you too and I hope everything works out for you.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
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How do they typically respond?
Girls mostly respond in a positive way, but there are always the shy or uninterested girls that don't allow me to get past a simple hi.
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