Ok I have a big problem. This past weekend I was supposed to visit my girlfriend but she said that I should rather come next week cause she has loads of work to study for her exams. I had no prob with that, but on Saturday morning I woke up and just missed her so much I really wanted to see her. Now she lives bout hour and a half away so got in my car and went. 20 min before I got there she sent me an sms that she's gonna sleep for a short while. I quickly sent one back saying I want to call her in 10 min so just please wait before she sleeps.(I was about 10 min away) I stopped, got some flowers(and keep in mind she doesn't know I'm coming) and went to her house. I rang her buzzer for about 50 min, and kept on trying to phone her but her phone was off. When I finally got in touch I asked her where she was and she told me on her way to another town with a friend for the weekend. Now I totally flipped. First because first thing you think is she cheated on you. Then cause she can't have you over, she has to study but goes off herself, then cause she lied about where she was. I called her 5 minutes after the first call and asked her again to tell me where she was and said the same thing. Then I broke up with her and put the phone down. I was furious and torn apart at the same time.Her phone was off the whole weekend. Yesterday when she got home she told me her battery was dead.She said she was sorry, and what she did was wrong and she admits it. Now what do I do? I love her, but she lied to me. Do I forgive and forget and move on and give her another chance, or should we split our paths? PLEASE HELP ME!
If this is the first time she's ever done anything like that then give her another chance, with the rules explained. NO LYING EVER! If she does it again, kick her to the curb. Everyone is entitled to mistakes. You just have to use your judgement on her. If you feel you can otherwise trust her then give her a break.
I would kick her to the curb. You drove all that way to see her and she didn't turn around to come straight home and see you and to thank you? She ain't worth your time honey :( Go find yourself a gal that will go weak in the knees every time you speak to her or touch her! You sound like you deserve WAY better! ;)
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