my boyfriend gets these naughty texts from girls that he has had sexual relations with all the time he never answers them in front of me and I'm thinking that the only reason that he still gets them is because he answers them when he is alone. what should I think about this?
1) He never answers his texts around you. If he was honest and innocent, he wouldn't be hiding things from you. You would know everything and not feel so uncomfortable.
2) Most women are not going to keep texting a guy if they aren't getting any feedback. He's most likely still talking to them and messing around.
The very fact that you are suspicious means that you don't trust him with it, and to be honest with you hon, I wouldn't trust him an inch either. You simply CANNOT have a relationship without trust. It just doesn't work. Ask him about it. If you still feel uncomfortable, there isn't really any other option other than to leave him. Hope this helps
Your absolutely right. if I'm not sure that I trust him or not that means I don't doesn't it?? shit...i mean its going really good...but I don't want to be naive either - 5 months ago
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It's alright chick, try and relax. talk to him and make your mind up about what you're going to do then. there are so many lovely men out there who would treat you with twice as much respect as your current partner. all my boyfriends have got better and better, and I'm currently with someone I truly love and where we both treat each other as equals and with respect..... good luck hon - 5 months ago
If you can't trust him, dump him! If he still gets them say something to him about it, if he defends them then he is probably having a sexual relation with them.
Yeah true ...he always tells me that they are texting him and that it's annoying ..so I trust him a lot but its just like COME ON get over him lol..i dk it's probably just the girls I guess.... - 5 months ago
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Guys are so confusing.. I wish they were easy to read :( - 5 months ago
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