Currently, I'm joining the army, I'm curious how guys would feel about dating a girl going in to the army, or are in the army? I want to date someone, and just trying to get guys opinions on this subject.
Well I wouldent see a problem with it if it was the reserves since I'm in the army reserves that would just show we have the same beliefs. Active duty I'm not sure if I was active duty also sure. 31bravo all the way fort meade md
If you're going to date someone before you join the army, make sure you are going to be DEVOTED to him. Once inside, you're going to get approached by anyone with a penis. If you let temptation get the best of you, it's better not to have someone waiting for you on the other side - you'll only break his heart. Also, make sure he is the trusting and non-jealous type.
From what I have heard from my male friends in the military, you will probably have guys climbing all over you IN the service. So if you're cool with dating an Army guy, then you should have no problems. If you have your eye on someone specific who is not in the military then it's probably going to be tough just because of all the time apart. You sure you want to tie yourself down to someone you won't even get to see for long stretches of time? And knowing that he could just as easily be cheating on you while you are away? Not to mention that most guys I know have a really hard time trusting their girls when they are apart for so long. Like with all my friends its the reverse, the guys are the ones in the military. But they ALL are pretty much obsessively paranoid that their wives are screwing around while they are gone. And like my husband is the LEAST jealous guy I know. He doesn't care if guys look at me, hit on me, anything. Hell once he told me I should strip because it pays a lot. He doesn't care because he trusts me and he knows that just because guys look at me doesn't mean that they GET me. But I GUARANTEE that if we were apart he would be CONVINCED I was cheating on him. I know because we've talked about it. He was thinking of driving truck but he decided against it because he was convinced I would cheat while he was hauling loads around the country. Men are just weird like that.