I'm into this girl who has a BF. He's in the army and now training in Georgia(She lives in Jersey). He's gone for 4 years, but he plans to come back once a month or so. I know she is unhappy with her relationship, but is too comfortable with her situation. All her friends tell her to break up with him. Any thoughts?
Update: Thanks guys! Your totally right! I'm just gonna be a friend to her and let her make the decision. If she decides to break up with him then great, If not, move on. The more important thing is to be a friend to her. Thanks Everyone!
4 months ago
my thoughts are DO NOT DO IT! that will be pretty messed up. put yourself in bis position if you went away into the army and your girlfriend wasn't happy and she was with another guy all that time how would you feel? if she is really into you she would have been broken it off with him so my suggestion is date around and have some fun with friends. don't stress over a girl there's plenty worldwide and if she dumps him then go for it
If she breaks up with him then I say go for it. You never know what could happen. But don't steal her or do anything with her while she has a boyfriend. If you were in the same situation would you want your girlfriend breaking up with you because of the chosen career you have, its not his fault that he's gone for four years(well other then joining the army). But I'm he did it to better himself and if she is unhappy with the situation she should deal with it. And then you can make your move with out having a guilty conscience
I think you should keep her as a friend.if you try to steal her away from her boyfriend that's very bad karma on u. would you like it if it happened to u? unless she dumps the guy I say keep her at a distance or you might get hurt.
The best thing to do is be her friend for now. Find out what she really wants to do with her relationship.Let it be her decision to break-up with her boyfriend. Don't push her. Support her and she'll realize and appreciate that about you. Should she break-up with the guy and regrets it for any reasons, you and anyone else will be the blame. If she's not happy with her current guy, step in as a friend and do whatever it takes that the other guy isn't doing to make her happy. She'll re-evaluate what she has in her guy and what she could have with a guy like you.
Why would you even think about doing something like that? Let her break up with him, then you can do whatever you want. Besides, if you joined the army how'd you feel if you were in his shoes. Go watch Jarhead, and you'll see.
If you think the guy is a douche than go for it. If you think you can and will take better care of her than go for it. But than again, I'm a home wrecker so you might want to heed my advice.
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