i was best friends with this girl awhile back,it started when she randomly called me for advice because her boyfriend cheated on her and even then she kept going back and after awhile I judged her because of it,maybe I shouldn't have,she then pulled a prank where she faked her death and didn't care if we cried or not,but the friendship got to the point where she cried for me when I didn't talk to her for a weekend being out of town,we would text or talk on the phone all the time,then came a span of 3 weeks shere she messed around with different guys and people started talking crap about her and of course it was bothering me so I told her which was the easiest way possible at the time,maybe there was an easier way but I said that she was making herself to be too easy,or around those lines,i did apologize for saying that but I guess she still holds it against me,then I told her that me and another friend will always be there for her and that others were calling her a bitch but somehow she took it the wrong way and now she hates me because she thought I was calling her a bitch,i judged her and hurt her which I never intended to do,i did fall for her and we already talked about it,i mean we hung out all the time,we became attached,people thought we were together,even tho I was 19 and she was 16.we stopped talking and I cried almost everyday just thinking about her,its almost 4 months that we've talked and I still think about her everyday but don't cry,what do I do? some say to get revenge somehow and some say move or wait till she comes back but it doesn't look like it because she hates me when she still talks to her ex boyfriend who choked her when I haven't even touched,at the most a hug,so could you please help?
Awe.um that almost made me cry actually. Well, hates a strong word. You should write her a letter explaining everything. How you feel, how she makes you feel, what you think about, what you meant by everything you said earlier. She might respond to it seeings how it isn't face to face. You could give her some time.she might come back a round.
no do not take revenge that will be the immature thing to do and your showing her that she won. be the bigger person and walk away move on and forget about her keep the good friends you have
ok first off this girl is so emotionally f***ed in the head she doesn't even care what happens to her. get away from her! stop calling her! meet a new girl that won't use you and just run back to her abusive boyfriend like a lost puppy. you did all you could for her but this chick is too f*** up to listen. you are a great guy for trying to help her and love her with all of her dysfunctions but now you need to go. find a girl that is more mature and confident and be happy. never cry over someone that doesn't even care about you or ur feelings.
ok someone get her a counselor! that is a horrible thing to do if my friends ever done that to me they would be dead after I got my hands on them!that is a sick twisted thing to do
she has problems big time its like she needs attention as is searching for something that's not there
she is very very immature and cy f***ed up to be quiet honest since when did pretending to die become funny I mean I have a sense of humor about 99.9% of things but that is wrong
revenge ? no if you get revenge it will only come back to hit you in the face I have had horrible things done to me and wanted to have my revenge but that would of been worse so I forgave the things and moved on ! I never forget but I did forgive
don't get revenge just move on and be the bigger person
Take the high road you will better for it. No revenge. She sounds immature and like she needs to grow up. She is using you as a emotional crutch. Find someone who will like you for you and won't be such a drama queen.
She has problems and she seems to be an attention seeker. The best thing you could do right now is to let her sort out her problems with her boyfriend. If she wants to be with him then there is not much you could do. If she seems to have an interest in you then it will come out eventually. But you have to ask yourself this question, what do you want from this girl? A serious relationship and how can you trust a girl who tried to fake her own death? You are going to run into some major trust issues which will eventually drive you crazy. You have to put your feelings aside for now and make sure that everything is ok with her. Taking revenge on a girl would be childish you would only complicate things more.
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