Ok so I have a girlfriend that I have been in a relationship for about 3 years. Now that I strongly fill in love with the girl from 3 years. I also started messing around with different girls. I really love my girl, but I don't understand why I keep messing around. She told me she didn't want to have sex until she got some kind of ring, but I thought that was crazy, but we still have sex not as much though. needless to say that was not the reason why I started messing around. Now, I have 2 main problems, I have been messing around with 2 main girls, 1 for about 5 months and the other 7 months. The 5 months I have sex with but the one from 7 months I haven't, but she recently told me that she was in love with me, and I kinda fill the same. Then the one from 5 months tell me on a scale of 10 out of 10 she likes me a 10. She recently asked me why we have been talking for so long and I haven't given her a title yet, and I told her in my life time I have done a lot to people girl friends. Well not 2 long a go I started to really start catching filling for the 5 months and when I asked her does she think she will be a good girlfriend, she said yes. She was in a relationship for 2 years, but then she said she does not want to be in a relationship right now though. But I didn't even ask her that. It seems like I'm starting to like her more than 7 months and I would say sometime on the level with my girlfriend. My friends keep telling me to not do it because they think she might be worth it, other also telling me that she is, I mean others guys are in love with just by looking at her. I mean I have a beautiful girlfriend who others try to get with her on a daily basis and I do not know why I keep messing around. I really love my girlfriend.
if you really love your girlfriend, you wouldn't be doing or even think of doing what you are doing in the first place. you must have a really messed up definition of love but one does not do hurtful or potentially hurtful things to the one they 'love'. if you really loved your girlfriend, you'd be straight and honest with her. I'd even recommend that you leave her because what you're doing is destructive to your relationship. when she does find out what you've been up to, I highly doubt that she'll see you in the same light. I mean let's be logical here for a second, put yourself in her shoes. what would you do if she was cheating behind your back with 2 or 3 guys at the same time, while at the same time claiming to 'love' you? what would you do and how would you feel? I don't think you'd be happy about it. aside from that, you're sleeping around with random girls. what if one of them gave you an STD and you then passed it on to your girlfriend. it sounds extreme and unlikely to happen but if and when it does, how will you explain yourself?
you can't have sex with other people and expect that you'll still have your girlfriend of 3 yrs. you can't have your cake and eat it too. I despise and loathe guys like you because you take for granted what you already have. always wanting more and more even though your plate is already overflowing. also, it's not fair to the other 2 girls that you've been messing around with. you have no consideration for anyone else's feelings but your own. you like that fact that you have a girlfriend for security purposes and you keep the other 2 around because it's something new and exciting and another boost for your ego. keep your games up and one day, karma will surely bite you back in the ass so hard, you'll never see it coming. like the old saying goes, 'what goes around, comes around.'
you're not crazy but you need to be single for a while.i did the same thing one time so I just decided to be single for a year or so. it was the best thing I ever did. you most likely haven't gotten the wild side out of your system yet and maybe that is what you need to do. and just get on with your life. or maybe you just need a break from girls for a while .
No you are not crazy like the person below replied I agree with him. Here this from a female like me to me it sounds like your not that into your girlfriend that's why you keep cheating. it's basically simple there is no way you cannot possibly no why your not cheating so you need to be a brave person and end the relationship don't waste your time sticking with someone Your Not that into if you really loved girlfriend of three years you wouldn't be cheating on her! if you like your mistress of 5 months mess with her then. but remeber karma will come back around
That's a mess. Do the other girls know that they're 2nd [and 3rd] to the main girlfriend? I really think you should just stop with all three and re-evaluate what you think a loving relationship is supposed to be.
you need to stay with your girlfriend. if you actually loved her, you wouldn't have messed around with the other girls in the first place. I mean you've been dating for 3 years. that could get serious in the future, if you actually love her. don't break this girls heart.
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