What would you think/do if you found your boyfriend/girlfriend had posted an ad on a singles website?

I did similar things when I was going out w/my ex. I did it though because she was going to school about 70mi away and I could never see her. I did not do the "hook up" thing but I didn't know if I wanted to continue a relationship with her because of problems (finally realized that I didn't want another girl). Not that it is an excuse mind you, and that it is OK.

If he knows you are on the website then GREAT.tell him to stop. This just adds extra temptation. Also you have to be carefull because if he has or will hook up with someone, you don't know what type of STD's the other person might have. To make it worse you'll probably catch it because most STD's take anywhere from a couple of weeks to months to show up. I can understand why he might be doing it but I would put a stop to it right away.

You have reason to be paranoid. You do have reason to worry but may be other than you think. He could feel that he isn't being appreciated. He could feel that you just don't tell him enough that you love him, or compliment him or something. Chances are that if he seems people are interested in him he feels more important. it is kinda a ego thing, but does go a bit deeper that that

Sorry sounds like a lie, but that's just me I heard that sorts thing before, except it was 'I asked her for her number just because it was a dare.'

okay honey here's what you do DROP HIS ASS! obvioulsy he's not that into you! because I know any man that really loves a woman you would never catch putting single ads on websites just to get some booty calls!don't waste your time with that5 loser makes me wanna beat him up myself! go have fun and hang with friends and enjoy being single for awhile or if your ready to date go on fun dates and don't get so serious right off the bat! wait until their someone that is serious about you and loves which will be soon or later!

He's either cheating or thinking about cheating. This type of behavior doesn't usually change. I wouldn't stay with him.

this could mean a few things but this probably means that he's looking for extra dessert. trying to get two pieces of cake instead of one, if you catch my drift

dump him! he put himself on a dating website to find a new girl.and when he does he's going to dump you in a nanosecond. so I say get rid of him before he gets rid of u.

I think he's not satisfied with you at all because why would he look for somebody else if he has you. Or, maybe he has a problem with you that he doesn't want to talk about, or maybe you guys have problems that you don't realize.

My only advice is when you talk to him about it, don't be aggressive and try to be understanding. I know you're going to be mad when you talk to him, but control yourself as much as possible because if you come off too strong you won't get any information out of him! I made that mistake with my boyfriend when I found he was looking at porn. I wasn't wicked mad, I just kinda teased him, and he was really sensitive about it. Who knew guys were so sensitive!? lol anyways, your guy might have put up the ads before your relationship and it might be an embarrassing subject, so don't bombard him with questions, let him speak at his own pace and I think you'll get the best outcome that way

well I'm not going to tell you what to do as that is up to you but I will tell you what I would do

well firstly id feel really upset well more confused to why I'm not enough for him that he feels the need to be on singles websites and so on I would ask him why he does this and in my opinion whatever his answer would be it wouldn't justify it to me as how can he be or want to say he is single when he has me?

surely he should be proud to have me and want people to know he is a spoken for man then I would tell him if he wants to be single well he knows were the door is as I can do much better than some person who is saying there single but yet is with me a year and a half!

Not paranoid! Well one I know people who are into the swingers lifestyle, some couples do it together like choose other people or couples to fool around with while the significant other watches/participates. Has he told you about this? Or did you just happen to find out? If you weren't told or at least he never mentioned that to you, then you should confront him and ask him what's going on defiantly. It's better than assuming.