Me and this guy really like each other. We go out to places and we have sex, and there is a good connection. But he is afraid of commitment and I don't know how to handle this sometimes.(how does a guy like this want to be treated?). He said he enjoys being with me but when he is not with me he thinks about me and he doesn't like that. Lately he does not want to stay on the phone for too long, he doesn't say I wanna see you, but he did call me once all day. I wonder if he will try to push me away because he feels something for me, or if he will push me to go with someone else. He makes it hard for me because I've never been with a guy who is afraid of commitment. He and I know that I used to like him and he liked me but know I am showing him more affection, and I don't know if that scares him but I know he likes it. another thing he had a rough past and the whole commitment have to do with that. he have showed me that he cares about me, ex; going to my job, taking me to his hometown, writing my paper, ect. Help me out here. ok.now yesterday he said he was acting like that because he wanted to see what it was like without me, and how I would take it. because we were seeing eachother everyday, except for this week, but he said that what he notice was that he wants me, and he prefer being with me. lets see how it goes, but nomatter what I have my guards up, and no sex for now so lets see how it goes. Update: Now he calls me more, he shows me he liks me a lot, but admits he feels weird becuase he never let anyone get emotionally close to him, and he want to take it slow just like I do too. so what do you think?
I think he has no respect for you. He thinks you're OK for now because there is no one better around at the moment. But he says he does not want commitment, that's in case someone better shows up. Then he's gonna try and see if he can hook up with that girl, and if she does not think he is good enough for him he'll still have you hanging around. That's if you're dumb. So it all depends on how much respect do you have for yourself. How much you think you're worth? Do you have the confidence to find a guy who is willing to commit because he does not care about looking for someone better when he meets you? There is plenty of fish in the sea. Drop him back in the water because he is NOT a good catch.
Well I guess that turned out pretty well for you if he admits his feelings and wants to take you more seriously (is he doing that? Btw, has he told you and his friends that you are his girlfriend?) I was stuck with a guy like that and it was so bad for me, I couldn't break it off although I got hurt because of his inability to share his emotions and commit etc. (just sex was super and I was sooo in love) But from your post it seems you are pretty much in control, so I suggest you take it slow and try to win his trust to open up to you and get committed:)
I hung out with him like two weeks ago&it was great and all like it was my friends and his friends&we were playin spin the bottle&i got to kiss him...
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