My boyfriend is always commenting to me what girls are hot where ever we go. I try to just let it go but I end up in a bad mood because it makes me feel insecure. I feel like he doesn't think I"m hot even though he constantly tells me I am. So I don't know I am just really confused.
I'd understand if you were down right angry at him, that is wrong, he could be doing it to make you jealous, or it could be because he's a dog and will go after anything he can get. If you talk to him about it and doesn't stop then there is something wrong, because that says he doesn't care enough about you to respect you. And if he can't appreciate you for all you're worth then why bother with him, sorry but it sounds like he's walking on you and I'm not a big fan of people (mainly females) having that happen to them. Sorry, and I hope my answer helps.
I think you have every right to feel angry. However, do not get insecure because he may just be trying to make you jealous and give him more attention.
No your not confused. That's your boyfriend he suppose to know better than comment on other girls especially to you My boyfriend is kinda doing the same thing But you really shouldn't feel/get insecure~he's with you~ All I can say is talk to him about it Even though he suppose to know better maybe he don't so just talk
No, I would be mad too. Why is he telling you about other hot girls. Yes, guys can be attracted to other women but I would ask him why he feels the need to vocalize that.
Guys pretty much always look. That's what they do. They are VERY visual creatures. So get used to it. But it is kinda rude of him to always tell you about it if it's bothering you. Have you talked to him about it? And have you made sure he knows what it really is that's bothering you? Like usually when this happens and the girl gets mad, the guy usually figures she is mad at him for looking at all. I suggest that sometime when you are not fighting, tell him that you know he's going to look at other girls but that you would really prefer that he not tell you how hot he thinks they are all the time because it makes you feel bad. If he cares about you then he should respect that.
I agree that you have the right to get upset. Obviously he's going to look, but that doesn't mean he has to mention it to you. Maybe you should let him know that it bothers you?
I notice he looks at girls behinds, I don't know if he does it as a habit of just looking because it's there? What do you think is it normal or what?
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