before I left on my trip to vietnam, my girlfriend told me that it was ok if I got horny and had sex with girls in vietnam. Obviously I told her that I wasn't going to do anything of the sort and I earnestly meant it.
today (i'm currently still in vietnam), I went to a massage parlor with my cousin in which we were told to undress completely and wear a towel which would be removed during the massage. In the middle of the massage, I was turned onto my back and received a chest massage which led the girl massaging me to start moving down and started stroking my dick. At this moment my Dick took power over my brain and heart and I just went with it. Right before I came, I snapped back to my senses miraculously and immediately walked out (after I got dressed). That night I told my girlfriend online and she said that it was ok and just to drop it but I don't feel like I can just drop this. Cheating is the thing I despise most and I came close to letting another girl make me cum!
I know I'm a frekken jerk and probably don't even deserve to be in a relationship with this wonderful girl anymore.
Gosh.i think there is no way to make it up to her. you wanted to cheat on her with sum slut in a massage center!thats REALLY LOW MAN. The girl doesn't deserve you. make it up to her by breaking up.
It doesn't really seem like too big of a deal, I would say just don't beat yourself up about it. I mean, it's good that you feel bad because that shows you really do care. But it's not like you went out looking to do that, and you left because you didn't want to. And she already told you it's okay, so I don't think you actually need to make it up to her. Just appreciate that your girlfriend is so understanding; show her you love her whenever you get the chance. :]
Don't worry too much about it because you really didn't cheat on ur girlfriend.Nothing bad really happened between you and that girl.All you need to do is be happy with ur girlfriend and try to make you are relationship last by always being honest with her because there's nothing better than an honest relationship.
don't feel too guilty, what happened to you is purely a biological response and not an emotional one. intentions matter the most. I actually heard of a massage like this, were you are sexually simulated but the act of sex does not happen. well if you do not like this, I'd suggest that you don't go to this kinda massage again.
Not gonna lie, I was on the verge of reaching up her skirt and asking for sex as well. but I still feel the need to make it up somehow. it's tearing me up inside and I know I'm bringing myself down even more but I just can't help it - 2 months ago
First of all, quit condemning yourself. That is simply agreeing with the enemy of your soul, who wants you condemned, so you won't be living the life God made you for. Second, whoever taught you that cheating is to be despised, put you under a curse. Cheating, like so many other things, is something you don't do, but choosing to despise cheating means that you will despise anyone, including yourself, who cheats, by any definition of the term. While what you did is not something I would want to do, I wouldn't go to a massage parlor in Asia, or even many places in the states, because this is normal for them. Learn from the experience. Don't condemn yourself. You stopped the action before it became intercourse, or oral. Yes, you allowed a woman to arouse you, but would you feel the same way if you didn't have a girlfriend, and only the hope of the wife you would be cheating on. Your girlfriend cares about you, more than whoever taught you to be so judgmental. She already forgave you, and so has God, since you have repented and confessed it. The question is, since God has forgiven you, will you agree with the enemy of your soul, or the Creator and lover of your soul. Christ died for our sins, all we have to do is recognize we screwed up and let Him take the burden, and our sorrows for doing it, on Himself. The best way to do this is confess it and let Him cleanse us of all the unrighteousness that led to it. The cleansing often requires our tears to irrigate the wounds that have been experienced in our souls.
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