He sometimes doesn't respond 2 txts. 2 weeks ago was late 4 my improve show I was in because his friend who came w him was hungry and had to order a pizza. today at 4 he told me we weren't hanging out @ all tomorrow because it's fathers day and he forgot. I also forgot but found out I had some time to I just had to go by 4 o'clock also tomorrow is two days after we both agreed we love each other. two weeks ago (his parents don't live together) his dad lives half hour away & we went out 2 eat w his dad I thought I'd leave after that because it would waste time for dad to drive half hour back me + my bf's town and then half hour to his house again and then half hour back but my boyfriend told me it was ok we could and his dad would come back so just so I wouldn't have to feel bad about wasting his dads time I stayed to long enough to make it somewhat worth it 4 his dad to drive back because I did feel bad about it
No. That's the short answer. It is okay to be angry, but don't hold a grudge. Process the pain behind the anger and grow from it. Don't take on coping mechanisms, like not trusting him, either. Discuss it with him, let him know how you feel (make it brief if you want him to hear it. Men typically need to hear what's important within the first two sentences. After that we are processing the first two sentences and not paying so much attention to the rest. The fact you asked if you should be angry indicates to me that you are trying to figure out if that is an appropriate reaction, or response. Nobody "should" be angry at someone else. If they hurt you, it is because theya re hurting too. They reacted to pain, in an unhealthy way, causing pain in someone else who, if they choose to react, will just begin the downward spiral. Choose to respond with kindness and understanding. He is hurting, probably has something to do with his relationship with his dad, which is irritating the wound right now. If your boyfriend says something is alright, trust his opinion. Don't worry about pleasing his dad, or him, for that matter. If they don't like the person you are, why would you want them to like someone you aren't. Be yourself. live your life. If they want to share it, then negotiate with them. Don't base your relationships on assumptions about their expectations, that doesn't work. Even if it did, trying to live up to the expectations of others is impossible. Live the life God made you for, in that you will please God, and find life fulfilling. If you don't know who God made you to be, that is something I would take care of first, by talking with Him about it. Until you know who you are, you can't show someone else.
its kinda hard to fall in love with txts. you know all the jokes out there about women using the phone all the time, well then same jokes apply to txting. men tong want a relationship with a cell phone or a palm pilot. they want a relationship with a woman! if the only time women communicated with me was via email or txts, I'd feel blown off, and return the favor! you gotta give him more face time, or set him free to find a girl that will deliver.
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That depends on which friends I'm going out with. I'm kind of a cross between "one of guys" and a "girly girl." If I'm going out with the girls, than a skirt or nice jeans or pants, a halter or other nice shirt, and heels. If I'm going out with the guys, than jeans, a tank or t-shirt, and tennis shoes.
How do you style your hair and do your make-up?
With the girls, for my hair I'll hot roll it or curl it usually, but I always put time into it. And my make-up is usually pretty natural but it depends on the outfit and what we are doing for how heavy it is. And with the guys, I leave my hair straight or put it in a ponytail and I usually don't wear make-up, or at least very little if I wear any.
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