I met my ex boyfriend online about 1 and a half years ago. We stayed in a relationship for 3 months without meeting in person and finally broke up as I didn't trust him with the distance between us. After breaking up, I felt like it was just stupid to have a relationship online and decided not to contact him. But he didn't notice it and sent emails constantly. A few days ago, he emailed me, saying he had noticed my intention so I responded it to conclude the situation. But after getting my email, he said he want to start again.so I asked him if he could try to be better than before. And I've got an answer from him but really don't know what he really wants from me. I decide to put it here so that can get some advice from you guys. --------------------------------------------------------------- Hi there, Just letting you know that I have completed my exams and begin work tomorrow. I was hoping that maybe we could meet online and chat when you have time. Thanks for your email response and consideration of what I have said. I think that things would have to move slowly to establish what we have between us. I do not want to lose a good friend as much as good gf. so perhaps if we just take things slowly and see how we go. Would love to hear from you. Take care, Night night Love and hugs, ---------------------------------------------------- Well, he said he had missed me and wanted to get back together but why did he have to say like 'I do not want to lose a good friend as much as good girlfriend.' in the email? Don't you think he's confusing me?
My take is that he is confused and it is carrying through in his emails. There is something spiritual here, some form of denial based deceit that I would be wary of. Pray about it and let God cut the soul ties, making Himself the source of whatever each of you were getting from the other. Let God be your protector, and deal with this, He knows what is going on, and how to deal with it best.
You mean he seems to be suspicious? can you explain more please? - 5 months ago
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You are confusing me. Are you serious, 3 months of online chat and you never once met him in person? Wow, kudos to you for keeping it up that long. There is a reason why we call our past relationships Ex. If it didn't work out before then odds are it will never work again.
He's playing you. If he doesn't want to meet you then he think he has a better chance of keeping in contact with you online instead of in person. Oh and he's probably seeing someone on the side. Just my opinion.
Yeah, it may sound stupid. But it was difficult for us to meet in person as we are living in a different country. we used to exchange some actual letter and I was planning to visit him though. Anyway, I don't care about him anymore just want to know if he's trying to play a game with me online... - 5 months ago
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