I love my guy very much but he has a major problem with his hands, we can't even hug or kiss without his hands being under my shirt trying to touch my breast and then his hand will wonder down to my butt and then tries to get in my pants and has to rub between my legs. He says it is not sexual, that he just loves my body and loves to touch my skin and caress me. I said there is a time and place for that. This happens every time I see him. It gets very aggravating and I end up angry with him. Sometimes we can't stand close and talk because his hands will wonder. Can we really survive this relationship. We love each other very much and he does try to stop but it is like it is a habit for him. We both don't want to break up over something this stupid. Please help me! I am going crazy! Thanks in advance
If his hands move so freely on your body even when you have told him you do not like it. How do you know his hands are not all over other women. If he can't stop he must be a pervert. Do yourself a favor, get away from him.
I would have to question how do you feel about HIM? I am told that when a woman is truly in love with a guy, she can't get enough of him. if his touch bothers you, maybe you should question whether or not you have the same feelings he clearly has for you! when a woman asks for space, its her looking for a graceful way to break up.
I am truly in love with him and miss him every moment I am not with him, but there is more to a relationship than sex and sexual touching. I am a human being not a toy! I think of him as my best friend and sometimes I would like to hangout that way, nothing sexual. We have no issues in the bedroom so it is not like he is deprived. I am not asking for space just some respect. I don't want to break up with him, he is my world. - 5 months ago
Well, I wouldn't say it is a stupid thing to break it up over. His actions bring to question what he loves more. he physical aspect of the relationship or you. Sometimes the lines between those cross and it is hard to tell. You may love him but if his actions bother you at times and he can't master himself regardless of your will.you may need to question what he loves more. By what you describe, I think he loves the physical aspect the most over any other part of the relationship.
i think that you need to tell the man to back the heck up or you're going to end it. if he likes your body so much maybe the idea of never touching it again can make him appreciate the gift of touching it when you say it's okay. it's your body and you have the right to dictate who, when, and how it is touched. if he can't stop I'd kick him to the curb and find someone with some self-control!
I have thought of that but easier said than done. Other than this issue he is the best guy I ever been with he knows how to treat a lady, says all the right things, and not only loves me but shows it in the little ways and is great with my kids and they like him too. He knows this is an issue and tries to stop but it is like a habit or something. We are great together otherwise. - 5 months ago
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