i love my man to bits but sometimes I worry that I will lose him because he will be bored of the same things. We have been together a long time now and I know that he finds me very attractive but I can't help wondering whether he has other females that he would like to be with. this is such a typical woman thing but I just am really looking for reassurance that not all guys cheat, and that hopefully they mean it when they say I love you.
Not all guys cheat, just as much as not all women cheat!.
I for the first time found someone I could truly love and when I tell her I love her, I mean it big time. So yes guys do mean it when they say those 3 words. Sometimes it is one of the few reasons why it is so hard to say it, at least for me, because when I want to say it, I want it to be when I really mean it.
As for wanting to be with other females, well it is normal for a guy to look at other girls, we can't help it. I jokingly chastized a friend earlier today because he was looking at our new sexy colleague and told him "Oy, you are married." and his answer was "I got married, I did not turn gay".
The point is wanting to be with other females is a given fact, loving them like he does to you, not a fact. And actually acting on it and cheating on you is far from just wanting. given at least if he does love you and your relationship is a serious one.
I mean like we have an excellent life together we have been through so much... but sometimes when I'm stressed at work I take it out on him.. I know I shouldnt but can't help it. you have really helped me thanks - 5 months ago
Just because I say "I love you" doesn't mean that I don't want or enjoy sex with other women. In fact, I am happily married, adore my wife and still have sex with other women (yes, everyone knows and approves of this). The interesting thing is my marriage is one of the longest standing in my social group. Funny how that works out.
If you are worried about your boyfriend having sex with other people, give him permission to do so. Then it will become really obvious whether he will or not. You might also discover that sexual exclusivity has very little to do with the creation or destruction of love. That is more about appreciation and honesty.
Not all guys cheat but many guys do well if you provide them with other sexual outlets.
Do you care if your wife enjoys other men? - 5 months ago
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Care? Of course I care. Physical attention from other men makes her feel attractive and sexy. It makes her happy and that matters to me. - 5 months ago
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