My boyfriend and I love each other very much and have been together for over a year and a half. We've been talking about having sex for a long time but haven't done it. The only reason I'm hesitating to have sex with him or doubting myself is because I'm afraid when I say I'm ready that I won't actually be ready. How can tell between being ready and been hormonal? Should I just go with my instinct and just do it or should I keeping thinking about it. (also what are the chances he could be playing me just to get sex?)
The fact that you've been together that long, I would highly doubt he wants you for sex. But if you're not ready, then it's ok. Don't feel pressured into doing something you're not ready for. You have your whole life ahead of you. And don't think that you have to have sex because you love each other. Sex is not an indication of how much you love each other.
Exactly! He is just playing you for sex! Don't do it. You could ruin your life for ever, just for that little bit of fun. If he really, really, really loved you and cared for you, he would wait until you were older , and married.
if he's been together for over a year and a half and hasn't pushed you into having sex then he sounds like a lovely guy and you should hold on to him. he clearly feels for you because of the length of your relationship. when you are ready you just know, and it will just feel right. however the one thing I would say is make sure that you have both discussed the method of contraception that is right for you because that is one thing that can make you worry about sex, instead of just enjoying the bond it creates for you.
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