I cannot figure my boyfriend out, we've been together more than a year and broke up once (because of him and he came back too me) but he rarely calls or texts only when he wants to chil. I use to get I love you messages (when we first got back together, does that matter, maybe he's comfortable now and does not feel the need to say it anymore.?) but now I really do not get anything unless I say when I am leaving I love you or once in awhile hell reply back with a text. We never talk on the phone because he never calls and I do not call (which I no I could). Anyhow we do not even chill on weekends anymore because he's now offically "busy". I cannot figure out what's up with him.can someone tell me what the hell is wrong with him and what I can do, I've tried talking about the communication but it really goes no where.
Sorry to break it to you, but he doesn't seem very interested in your relationship (or you for that matter). And you're actually making it even worse by not calling him just because he doesn't call you. In order to make a relationship work out, both parties have to work on it all along. What seems to have happened here is that you've both let it die out slowly.
My only advice would be for you to ask him straight-out if he wants your relationship to continue, and that you demand a yes/no answer. If he says yes, then you should demand that he sets off more time for you. My feeling is, however, that "no" will be the outcome.
No matter what happens, you'll have learned something. This is the school of life, and it's as hard as it is rewarding.
I wish you good luck and hope it works out for the best!
Dont be stupid and waste time on someone who is going to act like they hate you or don't love you tomorrow. Never waste it on someone who doesn't want to shout to the world they are in love with you. Don't give that guy your tears or a month or a year or 2 when they treat you badly and don't mind making you cry. Every person deserves someone who wants to brag about you. Huni don't fool yourself. You deserve so much better.
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