I don't know what happened to me . I use to be the good girl.the one who always waited by the phone.did anything and everything to make my significant other happy. Wouldn't even dare look another guy because I thought i was in love. I was kind of naive starting off tho.saw the world through rose tinted glasses. Kind of like the Charlotte character on Sex and the CIty. How I was seen by others was the very important to me and still is. But now I have a really bad side and it has taken over me. I have had 4 boyfriends and have cheated on three of them. (first one I didn't cheat on cause I thought I was in love and all that mess).When I cheat I don't even feel bad at all for it. I actually feel good. I feel like I have the power, like I am in control. ( cheating doesn't always mean sleeping with someone else),.sometimes it can just be receiving (if you know what I mean).when I cheat I don't ever give in return.i just use those men I cheat with to make me happy and be in control. And when they begin to fall for me , it fuels me more. I am addicted to manipulating men.I can't explain it to you, but its like a drug.and in some ways addictive. No one knows how I really am, I am smart and good at this type of thing, I NEVER get caught. To everyone I am the sweetest, sincere, smart person.but then there is this side of me that has emerged as a result of past experiences.
I want to stop and be in love with one person,.but when I get the urge to do so ( stop) I am reminded of the fact that I am again putting myself in a vulnerable position where my heart will be broken. I am in a relationship with this guy.i guess he really cares about me.but with men you can never tell. He calls 3 to 4 times a day.treats me good, a gentleman. Always wanting to spend every waking moment with me. I got stop this cheating and soon,.someone help me !
Why are you even I a relationship with this guy? He sounds like a nice guy who really cares, so do the right thing: dump him and let him find someone who's not f***ing him over. You don't seem like you care about him the least.
I believe that you should try to take a deep look inside yourself and try to find out why this begun. And, if any of what gravygirl says applies to you, then you should follow her advice.
Ok, well just calm down.cheating on your boyfriend that loves you very much, is very rude. You just need to remember you have family and friends that care more about you then the guys that you use to cheat on your boyfriend. You are going to feel sorry in the end if your boyfriend is the one to get hurt, but all he was doing was being a gentlemen and being a normal boyfriend. So don't cheat on your boyfriend. Tell your boyfriend that you have been cheating on him and you are very sorry.tell him you made a big mistake and you hope that you can still date and have a strong relationship. good luck [=
The way you describe your cheating sounds vengeful. Were you abused by a man? Or did you have a bad relationship with your father? If it is one of those, then I think you might need some counseling to get over this.
Theres this guy I like. He's a good bit older than I am. To him I was mature then he got to know my immature side. I like to play around wayy to much...
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