My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 3 and a half years now. The first year and a half were great sexually, doing it 2-4 times a week. During the last year and a half the number of times we have sex has decreased to maybe 1-2 times a month. During the this time we also moved in with each other. She claims that she is still attractive to me, but just doesn't get horny very often. I believe that she loves me, as I do her, but I feel less and less attractive with each passing month. Even with the sex aside she doesn't pay attention to me physically very much anymore (i.e. - touching, holding, and kissing). What should I do?
She's loosing attraction and isn't as excited by you. You need to do some damage control and start stoking the fires a bit. Pick up Art of Seduction by Green and the Venusian Arts Handbook. Both go into what women find attractive.
Simple complacency is what it sounds like is going on. Complacency leads to boredom and boredom leads to breakups. You have a chance now to fix what went wrong.
This is typical with long lasting relationships. The fire rages for the first few months if not years and then slowly fades to a glow. It is up to you to and her to find ways to add fuel to the fire. Surprise her with an evening out or prepare a nice meal and sensual massage for her after work. Anything to let her know that you love her now as much as you ever did.
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