Ok, so my guy went with a bunch of his male friends to go play beer pong at a female friend's house of one of his male friends. Myles also asked me to come. My guy didn't want me to. I thought he was joking so anyways I start thinking about getting ready and going.(pretty sure I am not going to go) Well, my guy keeps jokingly saying things like no you can't go and oh yea we're gonna get some girls tonight, all in a joking sarcastic manner. I am right there. Anyways when my guy went to his bedroom I asked him do you really not want me to go or were you joking? He says I don't want you to go. I then asked why? He goes because I don't want you to go. I think that is VERY odd. Whenever I ask him not to go somewhere with me I always have a reason whether it be girls only or that the people don't like him. He ended up telling me that it was guys night and that I wouldn't know anyone at the party and that I would be stuck next to him all night and that is why he didn't want me to go. So my question is this, does that seem like a legit reason or do you think he is trying to meet and flirt with girls at the party?
You won't know for sure unless you have some kind of proof or even a slight indication. Spying on his cellphone might work, try this site http://www.hackyourlove.com and take a look at MobileSpy
If it is guys night out then yes it is fine to say. But it sounds like you already don't trust him so of course you are thinking the worst right away, instead of listening to his reasoning.
Both. It's a guys night out for a reason. And if he wants to do so, don't stop him. You need to prove to him or pretend that he is not that important to you. And if he calls, you don't have to answer. And when you meet up with him don't ask about how his stupid boys night out was. Just act like you don't care, like you are not that into him. With this he'll stop being childish and realize he's about to loose a really good thing. And if he doesn't realize that, then it's not meant to be, move on to a guy who truly cares about you. If he was truly into you, he would have either let you come, or stayed home with you. it's simple.
princessjess99
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
What a jerk. I would get pissed if my boyfriend did that to me; maybe you should do the same to him. Go to a guy girl party and tell him you don't want him to go. Then he'll see how it feels.. ha ;]
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
First, a little spontaneity I would ask my date to meet me somewhere -- A museum, or park, some place in which casual conversation could be backed by something visual stimulating. A nice dress shirt, something not just a "button down", jeans and either nice shoes, or matching casual sneakers The date should end with each of us wanting to know more about each other. Unless...
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That there is more to find out... no, lol --> An introduction to my lifestyle, what I am currently doing and how I spend my free time. Maybe introduce something that I've been thinking about, so that next time, there can be a follow-up to it. Of course I would make sure she knows about my hobbies, and maybe one fun fact, like my celebrity relative or my 5-minutes of fame.
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