This is for the guys. Would you take back an ex girlfriend that you were in love with if she had a child with someone else in the time period of your two year break-up?
Depends on the relationship you share now. I don't think the child is really an issue here. In fact it may help you too connect in a way. You see her more responsible persona and she could see in me my future parent skills. Its all in the wanting girl. You want it, go get it.
Sounds simple enough. I 'm just not sure how he feels - 5 months ago
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So its not a rhetorical uuhhh. Well its up to him girl. I him would use (sorry if it sounds bad) the kids to get closer to you. So don't be shy or afraid about having kids. Luck btw. - 5 months ago
Right now, I am prepared to take back a wife who left me for a woman sixteen months ago. It is not as much what happened in the time apart, but how much of a commitment was made, and how much redemption the person is willing to let God work in their lives. The child complicates things, but the reality is, with God, all things are possible.
You seem so wise. I wanted guys to give me there answers because even though I have a child with someone else now I'm realize I'm am still in love with my ex. - 5 months ago
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Start out in prayer. If God doesn't show you what to do directly, step out in faith and see where He leads you. It may be that the soul tie needs to be broken to free you from the ex. It may also be that the ex is the one God wants you with. The bottom line is, you need to seek God's face and invest some time in your relationship with Him, so you can learn to distinguish His voice from the crowd. Then you will be able to start walking in His path, wisdom and strength, feeling His love. - 5 months ago
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Thank you. I'll pray on it tonight. - 5 months ago
Not even if you felt she was your soul mate? - 5 months ago
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If she was my soul mate then we wouldn't have broken up and the child would be mine.
Personally speaking, I think that after two years I'm over her, but even if I still had feelings for her, I don't think I would be able to move past her having child for someone else. - 5 months ago
Hmm, that's a tough question and it honestly would depend on the guy. I'd be over her after 2 years, and unless she was very special, then I would say no.
Let say she is the one but this happen while you were broken up and you knew you would get back together eventually.Do you think the relationship would have a chance if the child wasn't your? - 5 months ago
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I don't know hun, it would be tough. It totally depends on the guy. But if you're feeling so guilty about it, you will get used because you will try so hard to make up for it, that you will get taken advantage of. - 5 months ago
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