My boyfriend of 3 weeks hasn't called me yet. He has my number but he shares his cell phone with his brother. I have his mom home phone number but I would feel that I am bothering his mom. We have tried to go out one on one but he always ends up backing out, like to day we were suppose to hang out but he hasn't called me and I don't know if he is at his dads or moms. He tells he will call me to let me know where he was going to be but hasn't. Now that school has ended I don't see him at all even though we live a few blocks away from each other. I am his first girlfriend and I know he's probably nervous but I want this relationship to work over the summer.
Why doesn't he call me? How to I get gem to call me? Why does he keep backing out of our dates?
I really want help because I do want it to work.
Update: Btw the second question should say How do I get him to call me. sorry
5 months ago
I cannot answer why he hasn't called, but you might need to lengthen the leash a little. When you posted this yesterday, he still had not called. I assume he still hasn't called you since you updated it today with "Please help!".
Basically, he stood you up and you seem a little desperate for his attention. He has only been your "boyfriend of 3 weeks". What constitutes him being your "boyfriend"? Have you been intimate with this guy? Because if that is the case, when were you able to do so? You state in your posted question that "We have tried to go out one on one but he always ends up backing out".
Is this guy really just a friend who happens to be a boy? If so, it sounds like you are interested in being more than just a friend. If so, does he feel that way? Have you ever discussed it with him at all?
There is nothing wrong with calling his Mom's house looking for him, just don't do it all day-everyday. Just politely (and with proper respect) request that she give him the message to call you or come by since you live so close. Summer is 3 months long. If this relationship doesn't work out, there are plenty of other opportunities that will present themselves as long as you are not closing your eyes waiting on your "boyfriend" to call. Good luck.
We have not been intimate and he asked me out about 3 weeks ago and told his friends that I was his girlfriend about a week before that. - 5 months ago
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Well, that explains it better. He is a friend who happens to be a guy. You are a friend of his who happens to be a girl. He is not your "boyfriend" and you are not his "girlfriend". Obviously, you want him to be a true boyfriend. You need to tell him exactly how you feel, and find out if he has the same feelings, or has at least considered the possibility. If not, or he hasn't thought about it that way, then chances are not good that it will work out. Only heartbreak (your's) will result. - 5 months ago
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