Anyone in a relationship where you break up and fight ALL the time?

Your wants and your needs in this case are two different things. Your wants are to stay with him and your needs are to leave him. If you stay with him, there's a small chance things will work out, but the longer you stay together, the more trouble and hurt it will be if and when it does end. If you end it now, there's a 90% chance you're doing yourself a favor.

Don't stay with men who cheat on you, especially not twice.

Advice is to break up now.

I have a friend who's in an on and off relationship. Everybody around knows they're not good for each other. They fight all the time, and it's very unhealthy.

your relationship doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship either. ESPECIALLY if he cheated on you. Sometimes, outsiders see what you don't see in a relationship. I believe that it is wise to listen to your friends at this time. They see it it's making you unhappy. Break ups happen for reasons. There's no need to trying it again if it's going to end up in same result. He has already cheated on you twice. It is nerve easy ending a relationship. But you need to let this one go. Erase his number ignore his phone calls. Go out and have fun with your friends. They will be there for you. Good luck!

With no intentions of hurting you I feel that having a on - &- off relationship is stupid why because it causes lots of pain 4-u & make other talk sh*t, as you say there u'r emotions get hurt so take some time fore u'r self & think things carefully , because maybe just maybe it's not meant to be!

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and 5 months now so about 17 months and we broke up so many times and got back together also. So I totally understand that you really still do love him but sweety, he cheated on you twice? I'm sure he doesn't like you as much as you like him. As much as you liked to believe, he ain't good for you. Your probably convincing yourself he does, but reality is, he is a SLUT.

I have to agree with your friends and olwiggy. You deserve more than this. Cheating once MIGHT be forgivable depending on the circumstances, but TWICE? And sounds like he was fixing to do it again?! Why, why, WHY would you stay. I know it's hard when you love someone but fighting and breaking up all the time can't possible be fun! It's natural to still think about someone when you break up, especially when there are strong feelings and/or you have been together a long time. Although I agree that 15 months is not all that long. But long enough to make it weird/difficult to be apart.

Why do you keep getting together again? Is it you that keeps coming back? Or is it him that asks for another chance? If it's you then you really need to just get a grip and let him go. Do whatever you need to, whatever works for you, but NOT HIM. Don't be calling, writing, seeing, or anything else. Surround yourself with your friends. Go out with them as much as possible to keep you busy and your mind off of him. Avoid things that you know will make you think of him and when you think of him out of nowhere, try to let it go or remind yourself of all the reasons you are NOT together instead of all the things you miss.

If it is him asking for another chance then it's harder. But taking him back so easily every time clearly isn't teaching him any lessons. At this point I think he knows he can get away with anything and you will eventually take him back. He doesn't seem to care and you need to move on.

You deserve much better than this "relationship". You should never put up with someone cheating on you. That would have ended things immediately for me. It sounds like you could do so much better. I also think that if you're having doubts you should probably move on. The perfect guy for you is out there somewhere, I don't think its this one.